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		<title>INVISIBLE PURE JOY…Right Under My Nose!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[AS YOU ENTER TODAY’s BLOG TAKE A DEEP CLEANSING BREATH (IN…………HOLD…………OUT……WIGGLE YOUR TOESIES)….Let’s begin…ACTIVATE YOUR SOUL CONNECTION ! Dearest ButterflyMoms, At yesterday’s ButterflyMoms workshop I had a simple epiphany, almost unnoticeable at first, but once I brought my attention to it, I realized the PURE JOY that the cool, clean glass of water by my [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/agua.jpg"><img title="agua" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/agua.jpg" alt="" width="201" height="251" /></a>AS YOU ENTER TODAY’s BLOG TAKE A DEEP CLEANSING BREATH (IN…………HOLD…………OUT……WIGGLE YOUR TOESIES)….Let’s begin…ACTIVATE YOUR SOUL CONNECTION !</strong></p>
<p>Dearest ButterflyMoms,</p>
<p>At yesterday’s ButterflyMoms workshop I had a simple epiphany, almost unnoticeable at first, but once I brought my attention to it, I realized the PURE JOY that the cool, clean glass of water by my bedside brings me every night.</p>
<p>“WHAT!? WATER? Is that what I just wrote? How can water make you happy?” For those of you who are mentally traveling at breakneck speeds, trying to fit your never-ending TO-DO LIST, this may not seem like anything even slightly important. “So what you have water by your bed. Big deal.”</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/317279_188845461191793_145519288857744_428123_894468059_n.jpg"><img title="317279_188845461191793_145519288857744_428123_894468059_n" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/317279_188845461191793_145519288857744_428123_894468059_n.jpg?w=300" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a>Having water by my bedside gives me wonderful feelings that I have not even ever really noticed because for most of my life my brain has been RACING (against whom I have ZERO idea…although now that I’ve put it out there, it’s probably racing against myself which is probably why I was NEVER really the winner and could never stop racing. That is probably a GREAT definition of living in the RAT RACE).</p>
<p>The more I have called my energy back, the more I have started living in the NOW, the more of these simple AHA’s I’m having/noticing. To wake up in the middle of the night feeling parched and being able to simply reach out and find the wonderfully cool glass there waiting for me…..AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! IT FEELS SOOOOOO GOOD!!!!</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/agua1.jpg"><img title="agua1" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/agua1.jpg" alt="" width="269" height="187" /></a><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/agua2.jpg"><img title="agua2" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/agua2.jpg" alt="" width="185" height="141" /></a>It is a simple a ritual that without even asking my parents, I know at least three generations before me have done. I did not even think about it but it’s something I picked up from them. It makes me feel VERY HAPPY to realize this. It feels like yet another connection point with them.</p>
<p>I find it fascinating that I have been doing this all my life not realizing that this simple “before I go to bed” ritual was grounding and connecting me. It also brings in deep GRATITUDE for I know that in many parts of the world this LUXURY is not a possibility.</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/pure-joy2.jpg"><img title="pure joy2" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/pure-joy2.jpg" alt="" width="275" height="183" /></a>Part of what is sooooo wonderful about doing this work, is that you get to uncover so many magical moments like this one. I am at this point where now when I think about bedtime, part of my “RITUAL” is going to get a glass of water and even just thinking about it brings me GREAT JOY! What simple things are you doing in your life that bring you joy?</p>
<p>Great big hugs,<br />
Mariaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa</p>
<p> <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/momhugging2.jpg"><img title="momhugging2" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/momhugging2.jpg" alt="" width="182" height="240" /></a>P.S. Please help me support my dream&#8230; It’s been TWENTY YEARS in the making!!!! <strong>Entrepreneurial Moms Extraordinaire</strong> is the amazing wisdom of 21 entrepreneurial moms who are passing on their knowledge to those who don’t have time for beating around the bush! We all need to make money and live our lives well NOW. YOU WILL LOVE IT!!!! Please order it now and join the hundreds of happy readers before you who took the leap of faith in helping someone grow…<a href="http://bit.ly/gRxe4U">http://bit.ly/gRxe4U</a></p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>WHAT IS BUTTERFLYMOMS?</strong><strong><br />
</strong>ButterflyMoms is a community of people who realize they are souls first and human being second. They want to explore more about themselves, to find out what makes them happy and how they can lead a life of purpose. It is simply about FEEDING YOUR SOUL. Although it has the name “MOMS” in the title it is more about being nurturing to your own transformation, as the butterfly is to its own metamorphosis. This community is led by Maria Salomão-Schmidt whose transformation was ignited by the birth and death of her BELOVED thirteen month old daughter Sophia (Sophalicious), the original butterfly.</p>
<p>*<strong>Every Thursday night</strong> we have a ButterflyMoms workshop at 783 Washington Street in Holliston, MA at 8pm that feeds your soul. They started after Maria manifested her dream…with the help of Sophia…to be a guest on THE OPRAH WINFREY SHOW and every week since she had done the workshop on Thursday nights.</p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>*Every Friday morning,</strong> as a way of honoring Sophia’s soul, Maria gets up at 4:30am to write the weekly ButterflyMoms blog. Hundreds of people read it every week to feed their souls. Maria started writing the blog in 2009 and has written EVERY Friday since.</p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>WHAT ELSE IS GOING ON? MORE WAYS TO FEED YOUR SOUL…</strong></p>
<p>√  Next <strong><em>ButterflyMoms Workshops</em></strong> is January 19 at 8pm. Come learn to feed your magnificent soul!…783 Washington St, Holliston. Plenty of FREE &amp; EASY PARKING in back. Only $25, or just $20 if pay through Paypal <a href="http://bit.ly/mS7c70">http://bit.ly/mS7c70</a> or drop off a check.</p>
<p>√  I have space for one more coaching clients. If you are interested send me an email maria@butterflymoms.com</p>
<p><strong> </strong>√  Here is the magnificent ButteflyMoms interview on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=743854911">Nancy L. Cantor</a>‘s Dream Factory Television Show… I hope you watch it and that it feeds your soul! ! <a href="http://vimeo.com/30095902">http://vimeo.com/30095902</a></p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/mom-entrepreneur-extraordinaire_1.jpg"><img title="Mom Entrepreneur Extraordinaire_" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/mom-entrepreneur-extraordinaire_1.jpg?w=150" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>√  We sold ONE <em>ENTREPRENEUR MOM EXTRAORDINAIRE</em> book this past week. Please help me reach my goal of selling twenty-six more books this month.  If you have been thinking about starting a business or want to take your business to the next level this is a wonderful way to start. WAY cheaper than going back to school…and very helpful! To feed the soul of a friend buy them a copy by CLICKING HERE NOW… <a href="http://bit.ly/gRxe4U">http://bit.ly/gRxe4U. </a> PLUS each book is personally (and lovingly) autographed.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/mariasalomaoschmidt-150x150.png"><img title="mariasalomaoschmidt-150x150" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/mariasalomaoschmidt-150x150.png" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>THE BOOK… “Mom Entrepreneur Extraordinaire”</strong><br />
The following is a list of places where ButterflyMoms live, who bought our wonderful book, MOM ENTREPRENEUR EXTRAORDINAIRE… Buy one so you can put your city/town/country on the list like so many other beautiful ButterflyMoms have!</p>
<p><strong>UNITED STATES</strong><br />
<strong>California</strong><br />
Anaheim 1<br />
Fullerton 1<br />
Sacramento 1<br />
San Bruno 1<br />
<strong>Connecticut</strong><br />
Greenwich 1<br />
Yalesville 1<br />
<strong>Florida</strong><br />
Fort Lauderdale 1</p>
<p><strong>Georgia </strong><br />
Roswell 1<br />
<strong>Kentucky</strong><br />
Louisville 1<br />
<strong>MAINE</strong></p>
<p>Biddeford 1</p>
<p><strong>Maryland</strong><br />
Chestertown 1<br />
<strong>Massachusetts</strong><br />
Ashland 3<br />
Blackstone 2</p>
<p>Bolton 1<br />
Canton 1</p>
<p>Framingham 1</p>
<p><strong>Holliston 14 (+1 -someone bought it for a friend who is starting her business! YAY!)</strong><br />
Hudson 4<br />
Medway 3<br />
Millis 1</p>
<p>Millbury 4<br />
North Easton 1<br />
Sherborn 1<br />
South Grafton 1<br />
Watertown 1<br />
Westborough 1</p>
<p>Wrentham 1<br />
Worcester 3<br />
Wrentham 1<br />
<strong>Missouri</strong><br />
Lee’s Summit 1<br />
<strong>New York</strong><br />
Scarsdale 1<br />
Stony Brook 1<br />
<strong>Ohio</strong><br />
Dublin 1<br />
<strong>Rhode Island</strong><br />
Newport 1<br />
<strong>Vermont</strong><br />
Waitsville (Mad River Valley) 2<br />
<strong>AUSTRIA</strong><br />
Wien 2<br />
<strong>IRELAND</strong><br />
Dublin, Ireland 1<br />
<strong>ITALY</strong><br />
Rome, Italy 3<br />
<strong>JAPAN</strong><br />
Tokyo  1<br />
<strong>PORTUGAL</strong><br />
Santa Maria (Azores/Açores)  1<br />
<strong>SCOTLAND  </strong><br />
Greenock 1<br />
<strong>SPAIN</strong><br />
Madrid 1<br />
* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *<br />
*To buy your copy Click now… http://bit.ly/gRxe4U</p>
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		<title>A Mother-to-Mother CATFIGHT</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2012 03:42:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[AS YOU ENTER TODAY’s BLOG TAKE A DEEP CLEANSING BREATHE (IN…………HOLD…………OUT……WIGGLE YOUR TOESIES)….Let’s begin…ACTIVATE YOUR SOUL ! Dearest ButterflyMoms, Being a mother can be a wonderful thing and yet there are aspects of it I have struggled with though. One of them is, to be quite honest is something most don’t really bring up, FRIENDS. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/img_4766.jpg"><img title="IMG_4766" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/img_4766.jpg?w=300" alt="" width="300" height="224" /></a>AS YOU ENTER TODAY’s BLOG TAKE A DEEP CLEANSING BREATHE (IN…………HOLD…………OUT……WIGGLE YOUR TOESIES)….Let’s begin…ACTIVATE YOUR SOUL !</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/mommygroup3.jpg"><img title="OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/mommygroup3.jpg?w=150" alt="" width="150" height="112" /></a>Dearest ButterflyMoms,</p>
<p>Being a mother can be a wonderful thing and yet there are aspects of it I have struggled with though. One of them is, to be quite honest is something most don’t really bring up, FRIENDS. Many women end up becoming friends with the moms of the kids in their mommy group. Some of these groups, for some reason, develop a lot of toxicity in the sense that we are suddenly transported back to middle school. What forms is basically a clique with its own hierarchical system. There are the leaders and the followers. “In” members and “out” members.</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/mommygroup2.jpg"><img title="mommygroup2" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/mommygroup2.jpg" alt="" width="198" height="131" /></a>A client called me yesterday completely distraught because of how she was being treated by her group, women she had known for years and years. Major life lesson here. Life gives you EXACTLY what you need. Whether it’s a mommy group or a job, when it’s “time” for you to move on from a group you will be “released” one way or another. Energetically it’s the same thing that happens when a baby is being ready to be born. A million different little things work together to “release” the baby at just the right time, no matter how comfort-cozy it is in the womb. When it no longer serves you to be with that group you are also released…even if you go kicking and screaming.</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/mommygroup1.jpg"><img title="mommygroup1" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/mommygroup1.jpg" alt="" width="275" height="183" /></a>So let’s say you are part of one of these groups, it could really be any group, and when you leave (whether you get kicked out or do it out of your own accord), there may be some very ICKY feelings floating up. WHAT IF…you took those feelings as a gift? WHAT IF… you paid attention to how much of your precious energy you were mindlessly using up to lament this occurrence?</p>
<p>If someone call you a “giraffe” you think…”wow that person has their own stuff going on.” Right? Even if you were in public you would still be fine because it’s obvious you are not a giraffe…DUH!</p>
<p>Well what happens is someone calls you a ____________________ (asshole, jerk, pig, bad mother, cow…). Then how do you feel? DEEP BREATH HERE. And how would you feel if it were in public? Hmmmmmm? <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  If you are TRIGGERED by a word that means that at least a part of you FEARS it is true. ANOTHER DEEP BREATH HERE.</p>
<p>At this point also notice if you are JUST READING this and your mind is PREVENTING YOU FROM ACTUALLY FEELING THE EXERCISE ABOVE. Noticing this is important because if it’s happening here, with something so simple and “safe”, it’s most likely happening ALL OVER YOUR LIFE.</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/911c.jpg"><img title="911c" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/911c.jpg?w=150" alt="" width="150" height="117" /></a>You have two choices right now as you read (and feel) this…The first CHOICE you have is to FIGHT/FLIGHT against this ICKINESS. This can come in the form of either ATTACKING the other person or DISMISSING/COCOONING/RUNNING AWAY from the experience. Most of us have unconsciously chosen this choice all our lives as an AUTOMATIC RESPONSE but now we are being taught something that uses our ENERGY in a much more efficient way…which brings us to the third CHOICE.</p>
<p>Choice two is to simply NOTICE how you are feeling but what was said. Let’s say the word that most triggered you was COW, notice how you feel when someone says that word around you. Whatever gets triggered is what needs to come out and be released from your believe system for it is a hidden fear that no longer serves you. If it brings up issues of your being over-weight than play with that for a while. Notice if that is something that you believe is true. If it is, do you want to do something about it? If you do, fine. If you don’t fine. It is your life. It is your body. It is your energy to use as you so wish.</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/384423_299219030105585_236483019712520_1134760_1082011246_n.jpg"><img title="384423_299219030105585_236483019712520_1134760_1082011246_n" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/384423_299219030105585_236483019712520_1134760_1082011246_n.jpg?w=150" alt="" width="179" height="179" /></a>Now back to the expulsion from your group…fears will certainly come up, which gives you the WONDERFUL opportunity to check in with yourself and see what FEAR is ready to be released. Our bodies belong to this planet. When we are born we come with soooo many wonderful gifts that most of us have never been taught how to use. Imagine getting a brand new top-of-the-line music system and never even taking it out of the box. How you use your energy and how you TRANSLATE what is happening in your life, determines how much juiciness/aliveness/joy your life has. There are many ways to do this, one simple way is to read this blog every Friday to feed your soul. PEACE TO YOU!</p>
<p>Great big hugs,<br />
Mariaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa</p>
<p> <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>P.S. Help me support my dream&#8230; It’s been TWENTY YEARS in the making!!!! <strong>Entrepreneurial Moms Extraordinaire</strong> is the amazing wisdom of 21 entrepreneurial moms who are passing on their knowledge to those who don’t have time for beating around the bush! We all need to make money and live our lives well NOW. YOU WILL LOVE IT!!!! Please order it now and join the hundreds of happy readers before you who took the leap of faith in helping someone grow…<a href="http://bit.ly/gRxe4U">http://bit.ly/gRxe4U</a></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/309073_189905931085746_145519288857744_431253_1782309503_n.jpg"><img title="309073_189905931085746_145519288857744_431253_1782309503_n" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/309073_189905931085746_145519288857744_431253_1782309503_n.jpg?w=300" alt="" width="300" height="226" /></a>WHAT IS BUTTERFLYMOMS?</strong><strong><br />
</strong>ButterflyMoms is a community of people who realize they are souls first and human being second. They want to explore more about themselves, to find out what makes them happy and how they can lead a life of purpose. It is simply about FEEDING YOUR SOUL. Although it has the name “MOMS” in the title it is more about being nurturing to your own transformation, as the butterfly is to its own metamorphosis. This community is led by Maria Salomão-Schmidt whose transformation was ignited by the birth and death of her BELOVED thirteen month old daughter Sophia (Sophalicious), the original butterfly.</p>
<p>*<strong>Every Thursday night</strong> we have a ButterflyMoms workshop at 783 Washington Street in Holliston, MA at 8pm that feeds your soul. They started after Maria manifested her dream…with the help of Sophia…to be a guest on THE OPRAH WINFREY SHOW and every week since she had done the workshop on Thursday nights.</p>
<p><strong>*Every Friday morning,</strong> as a way of honoring Sophia’s soul, Maria gets up at 4:30am to write the weekly ButterflyMoms blog. Hundreds of people read it every week to feed their souls. Maria started writing the blog in 2009 and has written EVERY Friday since.</p>
<p><strong>WHAT ELSE IS GOING ON? MORE WAYS TO FEED YOUR SOUL…</strong></p>
<p>√  Next <em><strong>ButterflyMoms Workshops</strong></em> is January 12 at 8pm. Come learn to feed your magnificent soul!…783 Washington St, Holliston. Plenty of FREE &amp; EASY PARKING in back. Only $25, or just $20 if pay through Paypal <a href="http://bit.ly/mS7c70">http://bit.ly/mS7c70</a> or drop off a check.</p>
<p>√  I have space for one more coaching clients. If you are interested send me an email maria@butterflymoms.com!</p>
<p><strong> </strong>√  Here is the magnificent ButteflyMoms interview on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=743854911">Nancy L. Cantor</a>‘s Dream Factory Television Show… I hope you watch it and that it feeds your soul! ! <a href="http://vimeo.com/30095902">http://vimeo.com/30095902</a></p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/mom-entrepreneur-extraordinaire_.jpg"><img title="Mom Entrepreneur Extraordinaire_" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/mom-entrepreneur-extraordinaire_.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="300" /></a>√  We sold no <em>ENTREPRENEUR MOM EXTRAORDINAIRE</em> book this past week. Please help me reach my goal of selling twenty-five more books this month!  If you have been thinking about starting a business or want to take your business to the next level this is a wonderful way to start. WAY cheaper than going back to school…and very helpful! To feed the soul of a friend buy them a copy by CLICKING HERE NOW… <a href="http://bit.ly/gRxe4U">http://bit.ly/gRxe4U. </a> PLUS each book is personally (and lovingly) autographed.</p>
<p><strong>THE BOOK… “Mom Entrepreneur Extraordinaire”</strong><br />
The following is a list of places where ButterflyMoms live, who bought our wonderful book, MOM ENTREPRENEUR EXTRAORDINAIRE… Buy one so you can put your city/town/country on the list like so many other beautiful ButterflyMoms have!</p>
<p><strong>UNITED STATES</strong><br />
<strong>California</strong><br />
Anaheim 1<br />
Fullerton 1<br />
Sacramento 1<br />
San Bruno 1<br />
<strong>Connecticut</strong><br />
Greenwich 1<br />
Yalesville 1<br />
<strong>Florida</strong><br />
Fort Lauderdale 1</p>
<p><strong>Georgia </strong><br />
Roswell 1<br />
<strong>Kentucky</strong><br />
Louisville 1<br />
<strong>MAINE<br />
</strong></p>
<p>Biddeford 1 <strong><br />
</strong></p>
<p><strong>Maryland</strong><br />
Chestertown 1<br />
<strong>Massachusetts</strong><br />
Ashland 3<br />
Blackstone 2</p>
<p>Bolton 1<br />
Canton 1</p>
<p>Framingham 1</p>
<p>Holliston 14<br />
Hudson 4<br />
Medway 3<br />
Millis 1</p>
<p>Millbury 4<br />
North Easton 1<br />
Sherborn 1<br />
South Grafton 1<br />
Watertown 1<br />
Westborough 1</p>
<p>Wrentham 1<br />
Worcester 3<br />
Wrentham 1<br />
<strong>Missouri</strong><br />
Lee’s Summit 1<br />
<strong>New York</strong><br />
Scarsdale 1<br />
Stony Brook 1<br />
<strong>Ohio</strong><br />
Dublin 1<br />
<strong>Rhode Island</strong><br />
Newport 1<br />
<strong>Vermont</strong><br />
Waitsville (Mad River Valley) 2<br />
<strong>AUSTRIA</strong><br />
Wien 2<br />
<strong>IRELAND</strong><br />
Dublin, Ireland 1<br />
<strong>ITALY</strong><br />
Rome, Italy 3<br />
<strong>JAPAN</strong><br />
Tokyo  1<br />
<strong>PORTUGAL</strong><br />
Santa Maria (Azores/Açores)  1<br />
<strong>SCOTLAND  </strong><br />
Greenock 1<br />
<strong>SPAIN</strong><br />
Madrid 1<br />
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*To buy your copy Click now… http://bit.ly/gRxe4U</p>
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		<title>YOUR ANGELS ARE GUIDING YOU&#8230;.TO PLAY WITH YOUR TRUE SELF! :)</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Oct 2011 20:49:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My beautiful friend Joscelyn who died a few years back. She taught me to listen to my soul by how she lived her life. I feel her around me all the time! Beautiful ButterflyMoms! Sometimes I wish I could learn things faster so that I would not hit so many bumps. What I am learning [...]]]></description>
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<dd>My beautiful friend Joscelyn who died a few years back. She taught me to listen to my soul by how she lived her life. I feel her around me all the time!</dd>
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<p><strong>Beautiful ButterflyMoms!</strong></p>
<p>Sometimes I wish I could learn things faster so that I would not hit so many bumps. What I am learning is that in life’s journey, as you begin uncovering and letting go of your EGO (and things that no longer serve you), you start to FEEL. Sometimes those feelings can be overwhelming. During these times make sure you get plenty of sleep, plenty of water and eat the best you know how to eat. As you shift, your body will also need your help shifting. Be kind. Journal. Notice. Feel&#8230;ahhhhh that’s the word we sometimes try to avoid…FEELING. We feel the ICKIES so we numb out/avoid with _________________(fill in the blank with food, drugs, sugar, television, gossiping, shopping, cheating….you get the idea, right?) We have all been there. The POWER comes from admitting it!</p>
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<p>Why do so many of our children today, why do they CUT themselves just to feel. When I was a kid, I don’t remember hearing a lot of that kind of behavior, certainly not like today. Last night’s ButterflyMoms workshop was incredibly powerful! We did several exercises where participants could see how putting yourself last can have a very detrimental affect on one’s self. I gave the analogy of Princess Diana’s wedding dress. Imagine that your life is like her stunning wedding dress, but that over time you keep wringing it out more and more as you sacrifice who you are as you almost exclusively give to other people. Over time the dress becomes more like the lace curtains you see in the abandoned houses with the broken windows.</p>
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<dd>Princess Di had one of the most famous wedding dresses of all time with silk taffeta, ivory tulle and lace, and a 25 foot long train.</dd>
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<p>We act like if we just stay OUT OF OUR BODIES our lives will magically transform. What they will ACTUALLY do is they will SYSTEMATICALLY FADE AWAY. The world is full of examples of people who followed what they were told and shut themselves off. They let the voices of those outside of themselves be more powerful than their inner voice. For those of you who are FEELING A CONFLICT INSIDE YOURSELF REJOICE! Rejoice that you are still FEELING! Be THANKFUL that you are still getting FEEDBACK from your TRUE/AUTHENTIC SELF letting you know that you are still in there!</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/waynedyer.jpg"><img title="waynedyer" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/waynedyer.jpg?w=103" alt="" width="57" height="76" /></a>In your own life, look at how others before you, both men and women did what they were told and completely neglected their inner voice, their inner light. The best-selling author Dr. Wayne Dyer talks about how cemeteries are filled with people WITH THEIR MUSIC STILL IN THEM!</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/momhugging-daughter1.jpg"><img title="momhugging daughter1" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/momhugging-daughter1.jpg" alt="" width="272" height="185" /></a>Where is your “music”? Think of the little girl (or boy) inside of you. RIGHT NOW…How do you treat her (or him)? REALLY PAY ATTENTION HERE. What kind of time do you make for you inner child? What kindness, space, attention, love, do you show? How do you feel about your inner child? NOTICE! Last night at the 20<sup>th</sup> ButterflyMoms workshop (YAY 20<sup>th</sup>!!!!) We played with a little exercise where the women who attended were given an assignment…Let’s say you have three kids. You would usually not completely ignore one of those kids and give everything you had to the other two, well since most of the women in our group do have two kids I asked them to try this exercise: Add one more kid to your list of children, add YOUR LITTLE SELF as one of your children. Make time for her as you do your other children. Time to dress, time to teach, time to listen to, time to hear, time to acknowledge. Just like you would not leave one of your own kids behind learn to not leave YOUR SELF behind, otherwise the lace curtains that hang from those sad, abandoned houses will become an analogy for where your life is heading. (DEEP BREATH) <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> ! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! YES! <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> ! Write me with questions or comments if you need help removing this block from your life.</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/daa052000287.jpg"><img title="daa052000287" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/daa052000287.jpg" alt="" width="168" height="112" /></a>Speaking of blocks there are only a very few spots left for the first annual BUTTERFLYMOMS YES! YES! YES! RETREAT! If you have been on the fence, jump off of it!!!!! Saturday, October 15<sup>th</sup> the price spikes up from only $299 to $365. Make it work now! BRING YOUR SELF on this wonderfully special re-connection time. I can promise you, you will have one of the best times of your life! <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> ! Go to <a href="http://www.butterflymoms.com/">www.butterflymoms.com</a> to sign up or just shoot me an email. Hurry because there really is not that many spots left! <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> !</p>
<p>Big honkin’ huge hugs,</p>
<p>Mariaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa</p>
<p><strong>WHAT ELSE IS GOING ON? MORE WAYS TO FEED YOUR SOUL…</strong></p>
<p>√  Come the ButterflyMoms Vermont Retreat… and say YES! YES! YES! to your best life!  Take care of yourself! October 21-23 you have a date with yourself in Vermont at the beautiful Lareau Farm Inn for the first ever <strong><em>ButterflyMoms YES! YES! YES! Retreat</em>.</strong> Price is only $299 if you pay before October 15, after that it goes up to $365 which includes all the workshops, materials, most meals and lodging. There are a very limited number of spots so don’t be on the outside wishing you had booked it! Reserve your spot now!! YOU WILL ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT! To book it send an email to maria@butterflymoms.com! Scholarships available. You will only regret NOT going!</p>
<p>√  Did an interview for <a href="http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1306483715">Doreen G. Fulton</a>‘s FREE virtual conference “Finally, an IEP for Mom! An Individualized Empowerment Plan for the Mom Who is Overworked, Overstressed and Overloaded!” ! I am soooooo excited to work with her! Check it out… <a href="http://believeinarayofhope-doreen.blogspot.com/">http://believeinarayofhope-doreen.blogspot.com/</a></p>
<p>√  Finally here is the magnificent ButteflyMoms interview on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=743854911">Nancy L. Cantor</a>‘s Dream Factory Television Show… I hope you watch it and that it feeds your soul! ! <a href="http://vimeo.com/30095902">http://vimeo.com/30095902</a></p>
<p>√  Just finished our 20th week in a row of <strong><em>ButterflyMoms Workshops</em></strong>!!!!! Come feed your soul…783 Washington St, Holliston. Plenty of FREE &amp; EASY PARKING in back. Only $25 or just $20 if pay through Paypal <a href="http://bit.ly/mS7c70">http://bit.ly/mS7c70</a></p>
<p>√  We sold no <em>ENTREPRENEUR MOM EXTRAORDINAIRE</em> books last week. To feed the soul of a friend buy them a copy by CLICKING HERE NOW… <a href="http://bit.ly/gRxe4U">http://bit.ly/gRxe4U</a></p>
<p>√  I have space for three more coaching clients. If you are interested send me an email maria@butterflymoms.com!</p>
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<p><strong><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/mom-entrepreneur-extraordinaire_.jpg"><img title="Mom Entrepreneur Extraordinaire_" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/mom-entrepreneur-extraordinaire_.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="300" /></a>THE BOOK… “Mom Entrepreneur Extraordinaire”</strong></p>
<p>The following is a list of places where ButterflyMoms live, who bought our wonderful book, MOM ENTREPRENEUR EXTRAORDINAIRE… Buy one so you can put your city/town/country on the list like so many other beautiful ButterflyMoms have!</p>
<p><strong>UNITED STATES</strong></p>
<p><strong>California</strong></p>
<p>Anaheim 1</p>
<p>Fullerton 1</p>
<p>Sacramento 1</p>
<p>San Bruno 1</p>
<p><strong>Connecticut</strong></p>
<p>Greenwich 1</p>
<p>Yalesville 1</p>
<p><strong>Florida </strong></p>
<p>Fort Lauderdale 1</p>
<p><strong>Kentucky</strong></p>
<p>Louisville 1</p>
<p><strong>Maryland</strong></p>
<p>Chestertown 1</p>
<p><strong>Massachusetts</strong></p>
<p>Ashland 3</p>
<p>Blackstone 2 Bolton 1</p>
<p>Holliston 14</p>
<p>Hudson 4</p>
<p>Medway 3</p>
<p>Millis 1</p>
<p>North Easton 1</p>
<p>Sherborn 1</p>
<p>South Grafton 1</p>
<p>Watertown 1</p>
<p>Wrentham 1</p>
<p>Worcester 3</p>
<p>Wrentham</p>
<p><strong>Missouri</strong></p>
<p>Lee’s Summit 1<strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>New York</strong></p>
<p>Scarsdale 1</p>
<p>Stony Brook 1</p>
<p><strong>Ohio</strong></p>
<p>Dublin 1</p>
<p><strong>Rhode Island</strong></p>
<p>Newport 1</p>
<p><strong>Vermont</strong></p>
<p>Waitsville (Mad River Valley) 2</p>
<p><strong>AUSTRIA</strong></p>
<p>Wien, Austria 2</p>
<p><strong>IRELAND</strong></p>
<p>Dublin, Ireland 1</p>
<p><strong>ITALY</strong></p>
<p>Rome, Italy 3</p>
<p><strong>JAPAN</strong></p>
<p>Tokyo  1</p>
<p><strong>PORTUGAL</strong></p>
<p>Santa Maria (Azores/Açores)  1</p>
<p><strong>SCOTLAND      </strong></p>
<p>Greenock</p>
<p><strong>SPAIN</strong></p>
<p>Madrid 1</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Oct 2011 12:35:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Beautiful ButterflyMoms! EFFORTING. TO EFFORT. In most of our cultures VALUE is placed on HOW MUCH EFFORT you put into something. My background is that I’m TRAINED in both the CORPORATE and ENTREPRENEURIAL worlds. I have my MBA. I got it because I wanted to know what “they” know. It was a combination of being [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_1818" class='wp-caption alignleft' style='width:133px;'><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/jane-goodall.jpeg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1818" title="Jane Goodall" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/jane-goodall.jpeg" alt="" width="133" height="124" /></a><p class='wp-caption-text'>The amazing Jane Goodall...one of my favorite people!</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1819" class='wp-caption alignright' style='width:104px;'><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/gorbachev.jpeg"><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-1819" title="Gorbachev" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/gorbachev.jpeg?w=150" alt="" width="104" height="77" /></a><p class='wp-caption-text'>Gorbachev a few years before I met him.</p></div>
<p><strong>Beautiful ButterflyMoms!</strong></p>
<p>EFFORTING. TO EFFORT. In most of our cultures VALUE is placed on HOW MUCH EFFORT you put into something. My background is that I’m TRAINED in both the CORPORATE and ENTREPRENEURIAL worlds. I have my MBA. I got it because I wanted to know what “they” know. It was a combination of being curious, wanting to make more money and wanting to feel safe. My area of expertise is MARKETING and more specifically PUBLIC RELATIONS. I’ve done work with some of the world’s most incredible people like author and humanitarian Jane Goodall, former president of the USSR Mikael Gorbachev and companies like Yahoo!, Sun Microsystems, Procter &amp; Gamble, Continental Airlines and Reebok. I’ve even done work for the governments of Portugal and Japan. I have been doing this work for decades and I am very good at it.</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/oprah.jpeg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1820" title="oprah" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/oprah.jpeg?w=300" alt="" width="242" height="91" /></a><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/retreat3.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1827" title="retreat3" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/retreat3.jpg" alt="" width="125" height="178" /></a>So when I looked at my DREAM goal for getting on The Oprah Show, I took the same model as I do when I do PR. What are my objectives? What are my resources? Mind map it, set the list of tasks and off I would go. Well, what I found on that journey was THE MORE I EFFORTED the LESS PROGRESS I made. This really stumped me. This is the way that I’ve always done it, by mostly EFFORTING. At one point I was even going to WALK to Chicago&#8230;some of you who have read the blog for a while might remember that. It was a very foolish thing given that I had very small kids at home, no money, was not trained, had no equipment, etc, etc, etc…but as a Marcus Cherry’s mom used to say, “ A hard head makes a soft ass.” I was ignorance on fire. I did not trust the universe was going to give me my dream so I was going to circumvent the system! OH YA BABY! I THOUGHT I had it all worked out! Luckily for me the producers got wind of it and categorically told me that Oprah does not like stunts like that and if I did it I would never get on. I was disappointed but also a bit relieved. Can you imagine me walking 1,000 in the dead of winter?! I don’t know that they would have ever found my body!  <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/bfms-sept2010.jpg"><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-1821 alignright" title="BFMs sept2010" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/bfms-sept2010.jpg?w=150" alt="" width="160" height="119" /></a>HOW I finally got on The Oprah Show is what I teach in Thursday night ButterflyMoms workshops that you keep seeing everywhere. This upcoming Thursday will be the 20<sup>th</sup> week anniversary! YAY! That is 20 weeks of helping people stop their EFFORTING. Twenty weeks of learning how to MANIFEST the life you want! It feels soooo good! It is me accomplishing my life’s goal of BEING THE FIRE THAT IGNITES PEOPLE’S SOUL!</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/bfm.png"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1822" title="BFM" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/bfm.png" alt="" width="148" height="113" /></a><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/retreats1.jpeg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1829" title="retreats1" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/retreats1.jpeg" alt="" width="157" height="162" /></a>This whole ButterflyMoms journey is one of the most delightful adventures of my life! The gift of being able to connect with others in SUCH a meaningful and profound manner is ABSOLUTELY SPECTACULAR! Each step of the way I have had to find the COURAGE to drop my ARMOR (ego, ways I used to do things, expectations, shoulds) at the entrance of each new chapter of the journey. As soon as I quiet down enough I can literally hear the next “request”, or maybe the word “suggestion” would be better because I do get to choose whether I do it or not. Sometimes I wish it were more automatic because FEAR can be such a powerful deterrent to FLYING (CONNECTING TO YOUR HEART) in this lifetime! <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> ! How many adventures have you missed in your lifetime because you took the hand of FEAR instead of that of your INTUITION? Hmmmmmm? NO JUDGING HERE! JUST OBSERVE. TAKE A VERY DEEP LUSCIOUS BREATH AND OBSERVE!!!! BE KIND TO YOURSELF AND THE ANSWER WILL FALL OUT OF YOU. <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> !</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/couch1.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1823" title="couch1" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/couch1.jpg" alt="" width="165" height="98" /></a></p>
<div id="attachment_1841" class='wp-caption alignright' style='width:103px;'><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/karen-knight-detering.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1841" title="karen-knight-detering" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/karen-knight-detering.jpg" alt="" width="103" height="103" /></a><p class='wp-caption-text'>The Incredible Creative Practitioner &amp; Graphic Facilitator Karen Knight-Detering</p></div>
<p>In doing my first ever ButterflyMoms retreat I have hit upon the same issue that happened with The Oprah Show, my computer is acting up. I am noticing that technology gets very screwy when I step through the doorway of another cool adventure. That is probably no surprise to you because I have listed her the weeks and weeks of computer woes. So now, here we are two weekends before the retreat and the number of people who said they would sign up has not manifested. This week my talented friend Karen Knight-Detering shared this wonderful bit of wisdom. If you are trying to move a couch and need help because it is WAY too heavy and will scratch up the floor, you simply yell out, “Hey Charlie can you give me a hand here?” REMEMBER that when you need help with your DREAM remember the COUCH EXAMPLE…and SIMPLY ASK!</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/if-youre-waiting-for-a-sign-this-is-it.jpeg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1825" title="IF YOU'RE WAITING FOR A SIGN THIS IS IT" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/if-youre-waiting-for-a-sign-this-is-it.jpeg?w=100" alt="" width="100" height="150" /></a><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/retreats8.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1826" title="retreats8" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/retreats8.jpg" alt="" width="147" height="109" /></a>So today I am taking this lesson to heart and sincerely asking for help. I ask that you trust your INTUITION more than your FEAR and come for one of THE most MAGICAL weekends you will ever have. I ask that you sign up right now. Price is normally $365 but we are having an special price of $299 until October 15th so go to <a href="http://www.butterflymoms.com/">www.butterflymoms.com</a> and sign up online. If you don’t immediately hear from me when you sign up, and I mean straight from me not an automated email, than please email or call me so that I can make sure you are all set. Email me directly at <a href="mailto:maria@butterflymoms.com">maria@butterflymoms.com</a> or call me 617.877.3616 if you have questions.</p>
<p>This brings up a lot of anxiety and fear because in a way I’m making myself vulnerable by telling you what I need but what I’m learning is that to open one’s heart is to become a bit more vulnerable…but the rewards are soooooooo worth it!</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/retreat-d1.jpeg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1835" title="retreat d" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/retreat-d1.jpeg?w=150" alt="" width="150" height="99" /></a></p>
<p>Here is to a fantastic day!</p>
<p>Please read the updates and event below. They also feed your soul!</p>
<p>Big honkin&#8217; hugs,</p>
<p>Mariaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa<br />
 <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><strong>MORE WAYS TO FEED YOUR SOUL…</strong></p>
<p>My Talk on IGNITING YOUR BIGGEST DREAM at the Dream Factory Community</p>
<p>√  Come the ButterflyMoms Vermont Retreat&#8230; and say YES! YES! YES! to your best life!  Take care of yourself! October 21-23 you have a date with yourself in Vermont at the beautiful Lareau Farm Inn for the first ever <strong><em>ButterflyMoms YES! YES! YES! Retreat</em>.</strong> Price is only $299 if you pay before October 15, after that it goes up to $365 which includes all the workshops, materials, most meals and lodging. There are a very limited number of spots so don’t be on the outside wishing you had booked it! Reserve your spot now!! YOU WILL ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT! To book it send an email to maria@butterflymoms.com! Scholarships available. You will only regret NOT going!</p>
<p>√  Did an interview for <a href="http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1306483715">Doreen G. Fulton</a>‘s FREE virtual conference “Finally, an IEP for Mom! An Individualized Empowerment Plan for the Mom Who is Overworked, Overstressed and Overloaded!” ! I am soooooo excited to work with her! Check it out… <a href="http://believeinarayofhope-doreen.blogspot.com/">http://believeinarayofhope-doreen.blogspot.com/</a></p>
<p>√  Finally here is the magnificent ButteflyMoms interview on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=743854911">Nancy L. Cantor</a>&#8216;s Dream Factory Television Show&#8230; I hope you watch it and that it feeds your soul! <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> ! <a href="http://vimeo.com/30095902" rel="nofollow nofollow" target="_blank">http://vimeo.com/30095902</a></p>
<p>√  Just finished our 19th week in a row of <strong><em>ButterflyMoms Workshops</em></strong>!!!!! Next week will be our 20<sup>th </sup>so there will be lots of surprises!!!! Come next Thurs, October 13 at 8pm!  FRIDAY THE 13<sup>th</sup> and that is Sophia’s lucky number! J! Come feed your soul…783 Washington St, Holliston. Plenty of FREE &amp; EASY PARKING in back. Only $25 or just $20 if pay through Paypal <a href="http://bit.ly/mS7c70">http://bit.ly/mS7c70</a></p>
<p>√  We no <em>ENTREPRENEUR MOM EXTRAORDINAIRE</em> books last week. To feed the soul of a friend buy them a copy by CLICKING HERE NOW… <a href="http://bit.ly/gRxe4U">http://bit.ly/gRxe4U</a></p>
<p>√  I have space for one more coaching clients. If you are interested send me an email maria@butterflymoms.com!</p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>THE BOOK… “Mom Entrepreneur Extraordinaire”</strong></p>
<p>The following is a list of places where ButterflyMoms live who bought our wonderful book MOM ENTREPRENEUR EXTRAORDINAIRE… Buy one so you can put your city/town/country on the list like so many other beautiful ButterflyMoms have!</p>
<p><strong>UNITED STATES</strong></p>
<p><strong>California</strong></p>
<p>Anaheim 1</p>
<p>Fullerton 1</p>
<p>Sacramento 1</p>
<p>San Bruno 1</p>
<p><strong>Connecticut</strong></p>
<p>Greenwich 1</p>
<p>Yalesville 1</p>
<p><strong>Florida </strong></p>
<p>Fort Lauderdale 1</p>
<p><strong>Kentucky</strong></p>
<p>Louisville 1</p>
<p><strong>Maryland</strong></p>
<p>Chestertown 1</p>
<p><strong>Massachusetts</strong></p>
<p>Ashland 3</p>
<p>Blackstone 2 Bolton 1</p>
<p>Holliston 14</p>
<p>Hudson 4</p>
<p>Medway 3</p>
<p>Millis 1</p>
<p>North Easton 1</p>
<p>Sherborn 1</p>
<p>South Grafton 1</p>
<p>Watertown 1</p>
<p>Wrentham 1</p>
<p>Worcester 3</p>
<p>Wrentham</p>
<p><strong>Missouri</strong></p>
<p>Lee’s Summit 1<strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>New York</strong></p>
<p>Scarsdale 1</p>
<p>Stony Brook 1</p>
<p><strong>Ohio</strong></p>
<p>Dublin 1</p>
<p><strong>Rhode Island</strong></p>
<p>Newport 1</p>
<p><strong>Vermont</strong></p>
<p>Waitsville (Mad River Valley) 2</p>
<p><strong>AUSTRIA</strong></p>
<p>Wien, Austria 2</p>
<p><strong>IRELAND</strong></p>
<p>Dublin, Ireland 1</p>
<p><strong>ITALY</strong></p>
<p>Rome, Italy 3</p>
<p><strong>JAPAN</strong></p>
<p>Tokyo  1</p>
<p><strong>PORTUGAL</strong></p>
<p>Santa Maria (Azores/Açores)  1</p>
<p><strong>SCOTLAND      </strong></p>
<p>Greenock</p>
<p><strong>SPAIN</strong></p>
<p>Madrid 1</p>
<p>* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *</p>
<p>*To buy your copy Click here now…<a href="http://bit.ly/gRxe4U">http://bit.ly/gRxe4U</a></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/305172_252182168152933_220318278005989_632244_1704980536_n1.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1832" title="305172_252182168152933_220318278005989_632244_1704980536_n" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/305172_252182168152933_220318278005989_632244_1704980536_n1.jpg?w=298" alt="" width="298" height="300" /></a>REMEMBER…</strong></p>
<p>*Mark your calendar to read ButterflyMoms EVERY Friday!</p>
<p>*Share the ButterflyMoms blog with your beloved friends! Spread the love!  <a href="http://www.butterflymoms.com/">www.butterflymoms.com</a></p>
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		<title>WHAT YOU FIGHT AGAINST&#8230;GROWS!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Sep 2011 11:56:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Feedback is ALWAYS appreciated!LOVE to know that you were here! It feeds my soul! Good Morning Beautiful ButterflyMoms! If you grew up “AMERICAN” you most likely have been taught that LIFE IS HARD, that to get what you want you have to WORK HARD. You have to FIGHT. Because of this model, if things come [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em><strong>Feedback is ALWAYS appreciated!LOVE to know that you were here! It feeds my soul! </strong></em><strong><em></em></strong></p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/struggling-to-find-her.jpeg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1792" title="struggling-to-find-her" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/struggling-to-find-her.jpeg?w=211" alt="" width="211" height="300" /></a>Good Morning Beautiful ButterflyMoms!</p>
<p>If you grew up “AMERICAN” you most likely have been taught that LIFE IS HARD, that to get what you want you have to WORK HARD. You have to FIGHT. Because of this model, if things come to us too easily we question it. We literally say to ourselves, “that was too easy…what’s wrong with it OR what’s the catch?”</p>
<p>While dating, if a man treated you super well and things just flowed, many of us saw that as BORING! Instead, for many, especially when we were younger, it was the BAD BOY, the guy who brought you the most EFFORTING that we gravitated to…because in our culture we were taught to add more value to the things you FIGHT FOR. I think we can all agree that the fantasy about CHANGING your mate has brought boatloads of heartache. “I must be doing something wrong.” “What’s wrong with me?” is what we say to ourselves…and then the ICKY cycle of self-loathing begins to grow…</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/millenniumfalcon.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1793" title="millenniumFalcon" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/millenniumfalcon.jpg?w=150" alt="" width="150" height="109" /></a>TAKE A DEEP, LUSCIOUS BREATH RIGHT NOW…..Mmmmmmmmm. Recently, I had a choice to make in my life. There were two choices and I NOTICED that one was clearly the choice that had the best alignment for me and my family. It was completely effortless. The other choice was completely blocked and was about efforting. I found myself being drawn to the EFFORTING side because I unconsciously felt it had more value. I saw, in one way, how ridiculous that was but it felt like I was in a tractor beam like the one that pulled the Millenium Falcon. WOW! It was only slowly and with the help of talking it out with people I trust, that I started realizing what I was doing and to pull away from that choice. It was a very eye-opening experience.</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/bfm2.png"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1802" title="BFM" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/bfm2.png?w=150" alt="" width="150" height="114" /></a>Actors often ask themselves, “What is my motivation?” when they are studying a new character role. Well in your own life there are a million MOTIVATIONS that you have taken on that you do not even see that you have. They may have served you at some point in your past, but right now they may be hurting you instead of helping.</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/energy-healers-share3.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1795" title="energy healers share" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/energy-healers-share3.jpg?w=150" alt="" width="150" height="99" /></a>The BIG RULE here is to remember to BE KIND to YOUR SELF. Even those who interrogate people get a lot more information with kindness than torture. STOP TORTURING YOURSELF! Hell is here on this planet and how very MEAN we are to the little girl inside of us. We are sooooo afraid of disappointing others but we don’t spend much time realizing that we constantly ignore and mistreat our little girl. We then wonder why we keep gaining weight or feeling unhappy. It’s all about trapping energy. If you FEEL something, whether it’s a feeling or an intuition hit and you ignore it, you are simply storing ICKY energy. Over time this can get REALLY MESSY. I don’t even have to give you any examples because you can list a fairly large amount because you are living it.</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/energy-vampires.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1798" title="energy vampires" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/energy-vampires.jpg" alt="" width="172" height="229" /></a>Take a moment and start seeing yourself and the choices you are making. This week be MIND-FULL. Notice your habits. Notice when you use sugar or caffeine to help bring up your energy levels. Notice the people in your life who are your ENERGY VAMPIRES. Notice what you gravitate towards. Notice what you do when you are stressed about something or want to avoid something. Notice when you start thinking about your dream and you cut yourself off. BREATHE &#8211; DEEPLY. PLAY with this exercise this week. Big shifts are happening and they need to because many of us are so toxic that a truly fulfilling life is not possible until we get rid of our ICKIES.</p>
<p>Here is to a fantastic day! Please read the updates and event below. They also feed your soul!</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/is098w2im.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1805" title="is098w2im" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/is098w2im.jpg?w=100" alt="" width="100" height="150" /></a>Big beautiful hugs,</p>
<p>Mariaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa<br />
 <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><strong>MORE WAYS TO FEED YOUR SOUL…</strong></p>
<div id="attachment_1797" class='wp-caption alignleft' style='width:317px;'><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/dreamfactory-talk.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1797" title="dreamfactory talk" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/dreamfactory-talk.jpg?w=300" alt="" width="317" height="157" /></a><p class='wp-caption-text'>My Talk on IGNITING YOUR BIGGEST DREAM at the Dream Factory Community</p></div>
<p>√  Take care of yourself! October 21-23 you have a date with yourself in Vermont at the beautiful Lareau Farm Inn for the first ever <strong><em>ButterflyMoms YES! YES! YES! Retreat</em></strong><strong>.</strong> Price is only $299 if you pay before October 15, after that it goes up to $365 which includes all the workshops, materials, most meals and lodging. There are a very limited number of spots so don’t be on the outside wishing you had booked it! We are half-way to being SOLD OUT so reserve your spot now!! YOU WILL ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT! To book it send an email to maria@butterflymoms.com! Scholarships available. You will only regret NOT going!</p>
<h6>√  Did an interview for <a href="http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1306483715">Doreen G. Fulton</a>&#8216;s FREE virtual conference “Finally, an IEP for Mom! An Individualized Empowerment Plan for the Mom Who is Overworked, Overstressed and Overloaded!” ! I am soooooo excited to work with her! Check it out&#8230; <a href="http://believeinarayofhope-doreen.blogspot.com/">http://believeinarayofhope-doreen.blogspot.com/</a></h6>
<p>√  Just finished our 18th week in a row of <strong><em>ButterflyMoms Workshops</em></strong>!!!!! Come next Thurs, September 29nd at 8pm!  Come feed your soul…783 Washington St, Holliston. Plenty of FREE &amp; EASY PARKING in back. Only $25 or just $20 if pay through Paypal <a href="http://bit.ly/mS7c70">http://bit.ly/mS7c70</a></p>
<div id="attachment_1799" class='wp-caption alignright' style='width:96px;'><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/madrivervalley1.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1799" title="madrivervalley1" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/madrivervalley1.jpg" alt="" width="96" height="82" /></a><p class='wp-caption-text'>Come the ButterflyMoms Vermont Retreat... and say YES! YES! YES! to your best life! <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p></div>
<p>√  We sold five <em>ENTREPRENEUR MOM EXTRAORDINAIRE</em> books last week and one this week! WHEW WHO! Here they are: Elaine Gabrielson, Anne Borow-Lawrence, Victoria Haffer, Kat Moulton, Manon Theriault and Gillian McAuley. Look below to see all the new Massachusetts towns we are adding to our amazing list of people who have bought this magical book. To feed the soul of a friend buy them a copy by CLICKING HERE NOW… <a href="http://bit.ly/gRxe4U">http://bit.ly/gRxe4U</a></p>
<p>√  I have space for one more coaching clients. If you are interested send me an email maria@butterflymoms.com!</p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/mom-entrepreneur-extraordinaire_3.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1791" title="Mom Entrepreneur Extraordinaire_" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/mom-entrepreneur-extraordinaire_3.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="300" /></a>THE BOOK… “Mom Entrepreneur Extraordinaire”</strong></p>
<p>The following is a list of places where ButterflyMoms live who bought our wonderful book MOM ENTREPRENEUR EXTRAORDINAIRE… Buy one so you can put your city/town/country on the list like so many other beautiful ButterflyMoms have!</p>
<p><strong>UNITED STATES</strong></p>
<p><strong>California</strong></p>
<p>Anaheim 1</p>
<p>Fullerton 1</p>
<p>Sacramento 1</p>
<p>San Bruno 1</p>
<p><strong>Connecticut</strong></p>
<p>Greenwich 1</p>
<p>Yalesville 1</p>
<p><strong>Florida </strong></p>
<p>Fort Lauderdale 1</p>
<p><strong>Kentucky</strong></p>
<p>Louisville 1</p>
<p><strong>Maryland</strong></p>
<p>Chestertown 1</p>
<p><strong>Massachusetts</strong></p>
<p><strong>Ashland 3 (Manon Theriault adds one more to Ashland although since she is from Canada and we have not yet sold this book in Canada that would be cool too. THANK YOU BEAUTIFUL MANON! MERCI!)</strong></p>
<p><strong>Blackstone 2 (Elaine Gabrielson and Kat Moulton are the first to put Blackstone on the list. YAY!  THANK YOU BEAUTIFUL ELAINE! THANK YOU BEAUTIFUL KAT!</strong></p>
<p>Bolton 1</p>
<p><strong>Holliston 14 (Gillian McAuley helped raise Holliston’s number to 14 with her purchase! YAY BEAUTIFUL GILLIAN! THANK YOU!)</strong></p>
<p>Hudson 4</p>
<p>Medway 3</p>
<p><strong>Millis 1 (Boy, oh, boy, yet another new town added this time because of Victoria Haffer. THANK YOU BEAUTIFUL VICTORIA!)</strong></p>
<p>North Easton 1</p>
<p>Sherborn 1</p>
<p>South Grafton 1</p>
<p>Watertown 1</p>
<p>Wrentham 1 <strong>(A GREAT BIG YAY to Anne Borow-Lawrence who adds the town of Wrentham to our list! How very cool is that?! THANK YOU BEAUTIFUL ANNE!)</strong></p>
<p>Worcester 3</p>
<p>Wrentham</p>
<p><strong>Missouri</strong></p>
<p>Lee’s Summit 1<strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>New York</strong></p>
<p>Scarsdale 1</p>
<p>Stony Brook 1</p>
<p><strong>Ohio</strong></p>
<p>Dublin 1</p>
<p><strong>Rhode Island</strong></p>
<p>Newport 1</p>
<p><strong>Vermont</strong></p>
<p>Waitsville (Mad River Valley) 2</p>
<p><strong>AUSTRIA</strong></p>
<p>Wien, Austria 2</p>
<p><strong>IRELAND</strong></p>
<p>Dublin, Ireland 1</p>
<p><strong>ITALY</strong></p>
<p>Rome, Italy 3</p>
<p><strong>JAPAN</strong></p>
<p>Tokyo  1</p>
<p><strong>PORTUGAL</strong></p>
<p>Santa Maria (Azores/Açores)  1</p>
<p><strong>SCOTLAND      </strong></p>
<p>Greenock</p>
<p><strong>SPAIN</strong></p>
<p>Madrid 1</p>
<p>* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *</p>
<p>*To buy your copy Click here now…<a href="http://bit.ly/gRxe4U">http://bit.ly/gRxe4U</a></p>
<p><strong>REMEMBER…</strong></p>
<p>*Mark your calendar to read ButterflyMoms EVERY Friday!</p>
<p>*Share the ButterflyMoms blog with your beloved friends! Spread the love!  <a href="http://www.butterflymoms.com/">www.butterflymoms.com</a></p>
<p><strong>NOW HIT the “Like” button below: because you can!  </strong></p>
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		<title>GET A PEN AND PAPER FOR THIS ONE&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Sep 2011 12:20:34 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><em><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/300446_214899061900268_104980806225428_550825_864521763_s.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1780" title="300446_214899061900268_104980806225428_550825_864521763_s" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/300446_214899061900268_104980806225428_550825_864521763_s.jpg" alt="" width="100" height="130" /></a>Feedback is ALWAYS appreciated!LOVE to know that you were here! It feeds my soul! Before you read today’s blog please get a pen and paper or better yet your favorite journal! <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
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<p>Good Morning Beautiful ButterflyMoms!</p>
<p>Why did you come here today? Are you bored? Are you looking for inspiration? Are you looking to connect to something with meaning? Every week about 1,000 people, both women and men, come to ButterflyMoms but WHY? Out of all the things you could be doing WHY COME HERE? WHAT ARE YOU SEEKING?</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/szj252139.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1781" title="szj252139" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/szj252139.jpg" alt="" width="119" height="168" /></a>Use your breath here. Really take a veeeeeeeeeeeery l-o-n-g  d-e-e-p breath. Close your eyes and do it again. HEAR YOUR BREATH. How does your body feel? Breathe again. Smile. How does it feel to be noticing what is happening in the PRESENT. If other thoughts come…gently shove them into the closet…just kidding…gently, without judging, release them out the door. If they come back one, two, twenty times, still GENTLY, WITHOUT JUDGEMENT, release them.</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/writing1.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1782" title="writing1" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/writing1.jpg" alt="" width="171" height="157" /></a>In this state, take your pen and paper (no keyboards as they are not as effective because they are so linear and you want more freedom for this than that)…. So in this state take you pen and paper and draw, scribble, write, play on paper for as long as you can. Give yourself at least a good 14 minutes. See what PERCULATES! Your assignment is to do this EVERY DAY this week. If you have a specific life/business issue you are working on use this wonderful accessing gift to see what you cannot see when the noise of the other world is blocking your INTUITION, your inner wisdom!</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/writing2.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1783" title="writing2" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/writing2.jpg" alt="" width="180" height="176" /></a>I AM THANKFUL FOR ALL MY LIFE LESSONS…GREAT AND SMALL BECAUSE THE GRATITUDE IS THE SECRET INGREDIENT FOR A MAGICAL LIFE…AND I WANT A MAGICAL LIFE!</p>
<p>Here is to a fantastic day! Please read the updates and event below. They also feed your soul!</p>
<p>Big beautiful hugs,</p>
<p>Mariaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa<br />
 <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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<p><strong>MORE WAYS TO FEED YOUR SOUL…</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/photo_collage.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1784" title="photo_collage" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/photo_collage.jpg?w=300" alt="" width="300" height="239" /></a>√  Take care of yourself! October 21-23 you have a date with yourself in Vermont at the beautiful Lareau Farm Inn for the first ever <em><strong>ButterflyMoms Fall Retreat</strong></em><strong>!</strong> Price is only $299 if you pay before October 15, after that it goes up to $365 which includes all the workshops, materials, most meals and lodging. There are a very limited number of spots so don’t be on the outside wishing you had booked it! We have gotten a number of requests for spots so reserve your spot now!! YOU WILL ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT! To book it send an email to maria@butterflymoms.com! Scholarships available. You will only regret NOT going!</p>
<p>√  Thank you too the DreamFactory community for the amazing energy you brought to my talk on Thursday about IGNITING YOUR DREAM. It was a magnificent time! THANK YOU!</p>
<p>√  Just finished our 17th week in a row of <em><strong>ButterflyMoms Workshops</strong></em>!!!!! A big THANK YOU to our special guest, the amazing crystal expert Marianne Sage. You can read more about her at her site… <a href="http://www.crystalsinger.webs.com/index.html">http://www.crystalsinger.webs.com/index.html</a>…Come next Thurs, September 29nd at 8pm where we will have a BUTTERFLYMOMS PIZZA, SALAD &amp; WINE NIGHT!  Come feed your soul and your tummy. YOU MUST PRE-REGISTER FOR THIS ONE…783 Washington St, Holliston. Plenty of FREE &amp; EASY PARKING in back. Only $25 or just $20 if pay through Paypal <a href="http://bit.ly/mS7c70">http://bit.ly/mS7c70</a></p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/mom-entrepreneur-extraordinaire_2.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1785" title="Mom Entrepreneur Extraordinaire_" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/mom-entrepreneur-extraordinaire_2.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="300" /></a>√  We sold six <em>ENTREPRENEUR MOM EXTRAORDINAIRE</em> books this week! WHEW WHO! I don’t have their list of where they live so I will update it next week. Sorry about that! They were all in Massachusetts. See the cool list of all the countries and states where people have bought books at the end of this blog. To feed the soul of a friend buy them a copy by CLICKING HERE NOW… <a href="http://bit.ly/gRxe4U">http://bit.ly/gRxe4U</a></p>
<p>√  I have space for two more coaching clients. If you are interested send me an email maria@butterflymoms.com!</p>
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<p><strong>THE BOOK… “Mom Entrepreneur Extraordinaire”</strong></p>
<p>The following is a list of places where ButterflyMoms live who bought our wonderful book MOM ENTREPRENEUR EXTRAORDINAIRE… Buy one so you can put your city/town/country on the list like so many other beautiful ButterflyMoms have!</p>
<p><strong>UNITED STATES</strong></p>
<p><strong>California</strong></p>
<p>Anaheim 1</p>
<p>Fullerton 1</p>
<p>Sacramento 1</p>
<p>San Bruno 1</p>
<p><strong>Connecticut</strong></p>
<p>Greenwich 1</p>
<p>Yalesville 1</p>
<p><strong>Florida </strong></p>
<p>Fort Lauderdale 1</p>
<p><strong>Kentucky</strong></p>
<p>Louisville 1</p>
<p><strong>Maryland</strong></p>
<p>Chestertown 1</p>
<p><strong>Massachusetts</strong></p>
<p>Ashland 2</p>
<p>Bolton 1</p>
<p>Holliston 14</p>
<p>Hudson 4</p>
<p>Medway 3</p>
<p>North Easton 1</p>
<p>Sherborn 1</p>
<p>South Grafton 1</p>
<p>Watertown 1</p>
<p>Worcester 3</p>
<p>Wrentham</p>
<p><strong>Missouri</strong></p>
<p>Lee’s Summit 1<strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>New York</strong></p>
<p>Scarsdale 1</p>
<p>Stony Brook 1</p>
<p><strong>Ohio</strong></p>
<p>Dublin 1</p>
<p><strong>Rhode Island</strong></p>
<p>Newport 1</p>
<p><strong>Vermont</strong></p>
<p>Waitsville (Mad River Valley) 2</p>
<p><strong>AUSTRIA</strong></p>
<p>Wien, Austria 2</p>
<p><strong>IRELAND</strong></p>
<p>Dublin, Ireland 1</p>
<p><strong>ITALY</strong></p>
<p>Rome, Italy 3</p>
<p><strong>JAPAN</strong></p>
<p>Tokyo  1</p>
<p><strong>PORTUGAL</strong></p>
<p>Santa Maria (Azores/Açores)  1</p>
<p><strong>SCOTLAND      </strong></p>
<p>Greenock</p>
<p><strong>SPAIN</strong></p>
<p>Madrid 1</p>
<p>* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *</p>
<p>*To buy your copy Click here now…<a href="http://bit.ly/gRxe4U">http://bit.ly/gRxe4U</a></p>
<p><strong>REMEMBER…</strong></p>
<p>*Mark your calendar to read ButterflyMoms EVERY Friday!</p>
<p>*Share the ButterflyMoms blog with your beloved friends! Spread the love!  <a href="http://www.butterflymoms.com/">www.butterflymoms.com</a></p>
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		<title>WHERE&#8217;S YOUR HEAD?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Feedback is ALWAYS appreciated!LOVE to know that you were here! It feeds my soul! ! Good Morning Beautiful ButterflyMoms! This morning at 5:03 a.m. my seven-year-old daughter, Mialotta, came downstairs crying from a nightmare she had just had. She does not often have them and this one was a doozy. Initially the more I tried [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em><strong>Feedback is ALWAYS appreciated!LOVE to know that you were here! It feeds my soul! <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> !</strong></em></p>
<p>Good Morning Beautiful ButterflyMoms!</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/img_1312.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1760" title="IMG_1312" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/img_1312.jpg?w=224" alt="" width="224" height="300" /></a>This morning at 5:03 a.m. my seven-year-old daughter, Mialotta, came downstairs crying from a nightmare she had just had. She does not often have them and this one was a doozy. Initially the more I tried to get her to share what she had seen, the more she resisted. It kind of felt like when you are dealing with a tick, the more you pull to get it off, the more it DIGS IN. Hmmmm&#8230; So I had to unearth her ickies in a different way. ACTIVATE INTUITION!</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/girls-brain-stem.jpg"><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-1768 alignleft" title="girls brain stem" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/girls-brain-stem.jpg?w=150" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>First, I had to get her back to her thinking mode. I took many parenting classes with the wonderful child expert Ellen Kerstein who teaches Conscious Discipline workshops. Ellen taught us that when kids (or adults <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  are having temper tantrums they are COMPLETELY in their brain stem. This is the part of the oldest part of brain (evolutionarily-speaking) where there is no speech. It is all about survival. It is your fight or flight mode. We know someone is in this space when you try to talk to them and they seem to not hear a word you are saying. This is where we as parents are most likely to lose our cool. <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' />  Just so you know, there is absolutely NO WAY to communicate with a child that is in this place. Knowing this little fact helps us be able to RESOLVE, instead of thinking the child is being….(fill in the blank) a) bratty  b) spoiled  c) disrespectful  d) whatever feeling comes up for you.</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/brain.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1761" title="brain" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/brain.jpg?w=150" alt="" width="239" height="224" /></a>The best way is to help your child get back to her pre-frontal lobes, the problem-solving part of the brain. This is done through touching and speaking in a soothing voice. Today I rubbed the bottoms of her feet (helps her ground too), held her in my lap and rubbed her back. I could physically see her relax. While I was doing this I was speaking to her. I asked her questions, most of which she initially asked me to repeat because she was so deep into her brain stem. It is all information. If you JUDGE IT you label it. Once you label something you no longer receive information. You ASS-U-ME. (Sound familiar? <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>All these activities move her into the part of her brain that allows her to CREATE CHOICE. CHOICE is what guides our lives. It is the choice of what we focus on that gives us more of “that”. As you go about your day check in with yourself and see what part of your brain are you in. Notice especially when you are in your brain stem and wondering why you cannot solve the issue at hand.</p>
<p>Here is to a fantastic day! Please read the updates and event below. They also feed your soul! <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> !</p>
<p>Big honkin’ hugs,</p>
<p>Mariaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa<br />
 <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><strong>MORE WAYS TO FEED YOUR SOUL…</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/yummy-food2.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1762" title="yummy food" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/yummy-food2.jpg?w=150" alt="" width="150" height="112" /></a>√  THIS THURSDAY, September 22 from 12-2pm, I will be speaking at the <strong>DreamFactory Luncheon</strong>. The topic is<strong><em> IGNITE YOUR BIGGEST DREAM!</em></strong> at the delicious Bella Costa restaurant (147 Cochituate Rd, Framingham). Lunch for 1st time attendees to the DreamFactory Community is only $25 (the lunch is VERY yummy!) This is a wonderful community…Space is limited so please sign up early to reserve your spot. It would be soooooooo awesome to see you there! To sign up NOW CLICK… <a href="http://www.cantorconsulting.com/Programs/tabid/298/CategoryID/68/Default.aspx">http://www.cantorconsulting.com/Programs/tabid/298/CategoryID/68/Default.aspx</a></p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/cool-holliston-women.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1763" title="cool holliston women" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/cool-holliston-women.jpg" alt="" width="130" height="98" /></a>√  It will be here before you know it so sign up now. Do your New Year’s Resolution Early! Take care of yourself! October 21-23 you have a date with yourself in Vermont at the beautiful Lareau Farm Inn for the first ever <strong><em>ButterflyMoms Fall Retreat</em>!</strong> Price is only $299 if you pay before October 15, after that it goes up to $365 which includes all the workshops, materials, most meals and lodging. There are a very limited number of spots so don’t be on the outside wishing you had booked it! We have gotten a number of requests for spots so reserve your spot now!! YOU WILL ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT! TALK ABOUT REJUVINATING YOUR SOUL! WOW! To book it send an email to maria@butterflymoms.com! Scholarships available. You will only regret NOT going!</p>
<p><strong>This week’s ButterflyMoms updates…</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/sage11.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1764" title="sage1" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/sage11.jpg?w=150" alt="" width="150" height="130" /></a>*Just finished our 16th week in a row of <strong><em>ButterflyMoms Workshops</em></strong>!!!!! Next week we are having a special guest, the amazing Marianne Sage. You can read more about her at her site… <a href="http://www.crystalsinger.webs.com/index.html">http://www.crystalsinger.webs.com/index.html</a> She’ll share her passion and wisdom about how crystals are formed and how they work. She will bring lots of them with her. Some will even be for sale if you want to take one home. <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Don’t miss out on all the fun…Come next Thurs, September 22nd at 8pm!  783 Washington St, Holliston. Plenty of FREE &amp; EASY PARKING in back. Only $25 or just $20 if pay through Paypal <a href="http://bit.ly/mS7c70">http://bit.ly/mS7c70</a></p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/mom-entrepreneur-extraordinaire_1.jpg"><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-1765 alignleft" title="Mom Entrepreneur Extraordinaire_" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/mom-entrepreneur-extraordinaire_1.jpg?w=150" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>*We sold one <em>ENTREPRENEUR MOM EXTRAORDINAIRE</em> book this week. Thank you to the mystery person who bought one at Brick House Realty! Until I find out who you are I will put that you are from Holliston!! <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> ! See the cool list of all the countries and states where people have bought books at the end of this blog. To feed the soul of a friend buy them a copy by CLICKING HERE NOW… <a href="http://bit.ly/gRxe4U">http://bit.ly/gRxe4U</a></p>
<p>* On the 10<sup>th</sup> anniversary of 9-11 we held our first ever <strong><em>ButterflyMoms Healing Share</em></strong>. We had about 30 people including kids…they are the ones who really get this stuff! We even had a 93 year old who had never done anything like this but said, “Hey this feels pretty good!” How cool is that? We collected about nine bags of groceries and will be delivering it to the Holliston Food Pantry this week!  THANK YOU TO EVERYONE WHO DONATED THEIR TIME, SPACE, TABLES, FOOD and LOVE!</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/energy-healers-share1.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1766" title="energy healers share" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/energy-healers-share1.jpg?w=150" alt="" width="128" height="85" /></a>*Did eight more Reiki/Full Spectrum healings this past week. To book a healing send an email with times you are available to maria@butterflymoms.com! Cost is $60 for a session.</p>
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<p><strong><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/attitude-is-everything.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1767" title="Attitude is Everything" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/attitude-is-everything.jpg" alt="" width="130" height="129" /></a>THE BOOK… “Mom Entrepreneur Extraordinaire”</strong></p>
<p>The following is a list of places where ButterflyMoms live who bought our wonderful book MOM ENTREPRENEUR EXTRAORDINAIRE… Buy one so you can put your city/town/country on the list like so many other beautiful ButterflyMoms have!</p>
<p><strong>UNITED STATES</strong></p>
<p><strong>California</strong></p>
<p>Anaheim 1</p>
<p>Fullerton 1</p>
<p>Sacramento 1</p>
<p>San Bruno 1</p>
<p><strong>Connecticut</strong></p>
<p>Greenwich 1</p>
<p>Yalesville 1</p>
<p><strong>Florida </strong></p>
<p>Fort Lauderdale 1</p>
<p><strong>Kentucky</strong></p>
<p>Louisville 1</p>
<p><strong>Maryland</strong></p>
<p>Chestertown 1</p>
<p><strong>Massachusetts</strong></p>
<p>Ashland 2</p>
<p>Bolton 1</p>
<p>Holliston 14</p>
<p>Hudson 4</p>
<p>Medway 3</p>
<p>North Easton 1</p>
<p>Sherborn 1</p>
<p>South Grafton 1</p>
<p>Watertown 1</p>
<p>Worcester 3</p>
<p>Wrentham</p>
<p><strong>Missouri</strong></p>
<p>Lee’s Summit 1<strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>New York</strong></p>
<p>Scarsdale 1</p>
<p>Stony Brook 1</p>
<p><strong>Ohio</strong></p>
<p>Dublin 1</p>
<p><strong>Rhode Island</strong></p>
<p>Newport 1</p>
<p><strong>Vermont</strong></p>
<p>Waitsville (Mad River Valley) 2</p>
<p><strong>AUSTRIA</strong></p>
<p>Wien, Austria 2</p>
<p><strong>IRELAND</strong></p>
<p>Dublin, Ireland 1</p>
<p><strong>ITALY</strong></p>
<p>Rome, Italy 3</p>
<p><strong>JAPAN</strong></p>
<p>Tokyo  1</p>
<p><strong>PORTUGAL</strong></p>
<p>Santa Maria (Azores/Açores)  1</p>
<p><strong>SCOTLAND      </strong></p>
<p>Greenock</p>
<p><strong>SPAIN</strong></p>
<p>Madrid 1</p>
<p>* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *</p>
<p>*To buy your copy Click here now…<a href="http://bit.ly/gRxe4U">http://bit.ly/gRxe4U</a></p>
<p><strong>REMEMBER…</strong></p>
<p>*Mark your calendar to read ButterflyMoms EVERY Friday!</p>
<p>*Share the ButterflyMoms blog with your beloved friends! Spread the love!  <a href="http://www.butterflymoms.com/">www.butterflymoms.com</a></p>
<p><strong>NOW HIT the “Like” button below: because you can!   <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </strong></p>
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		<title>10 Years After We All Woke Up Into A Nightmare! (Shifting the Energy of the Horrors of 9-11)</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Sep 2011 12:15:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today we’re doing it a little differently. I’m doing the blog first and then all the amazing stuff that is going on. Let’s try this for a bit and see how it feels… SERIOUS WARNING: PLEASE NOTE THAT TODAY&#8217;s BLOG HAS VERY GRAPHIC PHOTOS IN IT&#8230; REMEMBER TO KEEP BREATHING! &#160; &#160; BOM DIA BEAUTIFUL [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today we’re doing it a little differently. I’m doing the blog first and then all the amazing stuff that is going on. Let’s try this for a bit and see how it feels…</p>
<h2 style="text-align:center;"><strong><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/911c1.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1740 alignleft" title="911c" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/911c1.jpg" alt="" width="253" height="199" /></a>SERIOUS WARNING:</strong></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:center;"><strong>PLEASE NOTE </strong></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:center;"><strong>THAT TODAY&#8217;s BLOG HAS VERY </strong></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:center;"><strong>GRAPHIC PHOTOS IN IT&#8230;</strong></h2>
<h2 style="text-align:center;">REMEMBER TO KEEP BREATHING!</h2>
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<h2><strong>BOM DIA BEAUTIFUL BUTTERFLYMOMS!</strong></h2>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/911-photo1.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1729" title="911 photo" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/911-photo1.jpg?w=125" alt="" width="109" height="128" /></a>There is soooooooo much activity right now going on. The energy is shifting. Can you feel it? How about in the weather? In how you feel lately? In others around you? It is not in your head. Mercury has been in retrograde and it affects us, but beyond that, as a global community there is an event that shifted life just enough to send us in a different direction. I’m talking about the events of 9-11. This Sunday is the 10<sup>th</sup> anniversary and I don’t know about you, but for most of these things I mean to do something to mark the occasion. Usually it comes out very bland or I don’t know what to do and just end up sad or bottling my feelings. This year it feels different.</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/911h.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1731" title="911h" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/911h.jpg" alt="" width="184" height="274" /></a><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/peoplewtc.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1732" title="peoplewtc" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/peoplewtc.jpg?w=300" alt="" width="300" height="221" /></a>It’s different for me because for years and years they have shown the building on fire but never really the people, well this year I saw the photos of the people, who were in such dire straights that climbing out of the window of 100 story building and eventually jumping seemed like a better idea than what was going on inside. It’s easy at this point to STOP BREATHING. It’s easy to get all choked up and turn away. I invite you to stay with these words and notice what you are feeling. What is coming up? Use your breath. STAY PRESENT. NOTICE YOUR MIND TRYING TO PULL YOU. Ground yourself to the earth and feel what you are feeling. Wiggle your “toesies”. Let it pass. Notice it passing. We have a tendency to want to HANG ON, play the movie again and again but let go of that tendency. NOTICE, BREATHE, FEEL, RELEASE, BREATHE, NOTICE… Give yourself these amazing gifts of FEELING what you FEEL and then RELEASING it. AHHHHHHHHHHHH! Do this as many times as you need. Stay with it. Breathe.</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/911f.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1733" title="911f" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/911f.jpg?w=141" alt="" width="141" height="150" /></a></p>
<p>Last night at the 15<sup>th</sup> ButterflyMoms workshop we did a healing-grounding meditation and sent LOVE to all those who were on the building, in the planes and at home waiting to get word, especially the children who lost their parents and the parents who lost their children. (BREATHE) I feel compelled to do something special this year so I have organized a HEALING SHARE which means that if you would like to come get a FREE HEALING (like Massage, Reiki, Full Spectrum Healing) there will be a number of volunteers there who are giving of their time in honor of shifting all the ICKY ENERGY of 9-11 and turning it into HEALING for our communities. Just bring something for the Holliston Food Pantry so that we can PAY IT FORWARD. So far we have people coming from four different States!  Pretty awesome!!!! Details are below. If you are a healer and would like to donate your time please contact me at maria @ butterflymoms.com. Breathe.</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/sage.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1734" title="sage" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/sage.jpg?w=172" alt="" width="172" height="300" /></a><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/sage5.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1735" title="sage5" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/sage5.jpg" alt="" width="247" height="204" /></a></p>
<p>With all these feelings sometimes it helps look around for people who are AUTHENTIC. Why? Because authentic people having nothing to prove. They are just themselves, even if it goes against the grain. Being around them helps you get more in alignment with yourself. There is one woman I would love to introduce you to who has helped me grow in such amazing ways by SIMPLY WATCHING how she is in the world. Her name is Marianne Sage. She is delightful. When I first met her many years ago I did not know how to take her. She said she went mining for crystals in Arkansas and sang to them as she mined them. To be honest she seemed a “little flaky”, just like now I probably seem a “little flaky” to others too! <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  Well over the years she just kept showing up in my life and I started to let my guard down. I’m soooooo thankful I did. Now that I do Reiki, crystals are a very important part of the process because it further MAGNIFIES THE ENERGY. You can do a more powerful healing if you are using them. Sage is an expert in them! She loves these crystals. She respects them. Last week she held one up and said to my children, “Do you know these are older than dinosaurs?” Their eyes got really big! (mine did too!) She said that crystals are between 300-500 million years old! UH HELLO! That is half a billion years and you are holding it in your hands!!!! Hearing her speak is incredibly humbling and powerful! It is the respect for Mother Earth that Sage carries in her soul! She exudes it! She carries her passion on her sleeve! It is amazing to witness…but you only get to see it if you have your walls down. Once or twice a year this grandmother mines these amazing crystals. She lives her passion by mining these incredible gifts while singing to them. (Sage has an amazing voice! She used to sing in England.) WOW! Not conventional but AUTHENTIC! In total alignment with her purpose! I’m sooo happy to let you know that if you want to meet Sage you can do so at our next ButterflyMoms workshop! Yay!</p>
<p>Here’s to living the most AUTHENTIC week you can! GROUND YOURSELF!!!!!</p>
<p>Big honkin’ hugs,</p>
<p>Mariaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa<br />
 <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<h2><strong>This week’s ButterflyMoms updates…</strong></h2>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/bfms-sept2010.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1736" title="BFMs sept2010" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/bfms-sept2010.jpg?w=300" alt="" width="300" height="224" /></a><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/sage1.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1739 alignleft" title="sage1" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/sage1.jpg?w=300" alt="" width="215" height="188" /></a>*Just finished our 15th week in a row of <strong><em>ButterflyMoms Workshops</em></strong>!!!!! We had a surprise guest from Scotland! Welcome Nancy Ross! It was simply magical to have you here! Such wisdom, presence and candor! Thank you for crossing the pond!! Next week we are having a special guest, the amazing Marianne Sage. You can read more about her at her site… <a href="http://www.crystalsinger.webs.com/index.html">http://www.crystalsinger.webs.com/index.html</a> She’ll share her passion and wisdom about how crystals are formed and how they work. She will bring lots of them with her. Some will even be for sale if you want to take one home. <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Don’t miss out on all the fun…Come next Thurs, September 15th at 8pm!  783 Washington St, Holliston. Plenty of FREE &amp; EASY PARKING in back. Only $25 or just $20 if pay through Paypal <a href="http://bit.ly/mS7c70">http://bit.ly/mS7c70</a></p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/oprah.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1744" title="oprah" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/oprah.jpg" alt="" width="59" height="90" /></a></p>
<p>*The Oprah Show did re-runs and I saw my episode again. It was magical to see. Different audience though from the original one at 4pm and this one at 1am! <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Still an incredible experience that I will always treasure.</p>
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<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/mom-entrepreneur-extraordinaire_.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1747" title="Mom Entrepreneur Extraordinaire_" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/mom-entrepreneur-extraordinaire_.jpg?w=150" alt="" width="101" height="101" /></a>We sold no <em>ENTREPRENEUR MOM EXTRAORDINAIRE</em> books this week but did get THE ENCHANTED FOX BOOKSTORE in Medway, MA to carry them. <a href="http://www.enchantedfox.net/">www.enchantedfox.net</a> Thank you beautiful Rose!!! <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> ! See the cool list of all the countries and states where people have bought books at the end of this blog. To feed the soul of a friend buy them a copy by CLICKING HERE NOW… <a href="http://bit.ly/gRxe4U">http://bit.ly/gRxe4U</a></p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/reiki.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1752" title="reiki" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/reiki.jpg?w=114" alt="" width="84" height="111" /></a></p>
<p>*Did two more Reiki/Full Spectrum healings so far this week and have another appointment today. To book a healing send an email with times you are available to maria @ butterflymoms.com!</p>
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<h2><strong>SAVE THESE  DATES…FOR YOUR HEART !</strong></h2>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/lareaufarm3.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1746" title="lareaufarm3" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/lareaufarm3.jpg?w=150" alt="" width="180" height="120" /></a>√  SERIOUSLY WHIP OUT your calendar and write down Friday, Saturday and Sunday, October 21-23 you have a date with yourself in Vermont at the beautiful Lareau Farm Inn for the first ever <strong><em>ButterflyMoms Fall Retreat</em>!</strong> Price is only $299 if you pay before October 2, after that it goes up to $365 which includes all the workshops, materials, most meals and lodging. There are a very limited number of spots so don’t be on the outside wishing you had booked it! We have gotten a number of requests for spots so reserve your spot now!! YOU WILL ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT!!!! TALK ABOUT REJUVINATING YOUR SOUL!!! WOW! To book it send an email to maria @ butterflymoms.com! You will only regret NOT going!!!!!</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/energy-healers-share.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1745" title="energy healers share" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/energy-healers-share.jpg?w=150" alt="" width="182" height="119" /></a>√  On the 10<sup>th</sup> anniversary of 9-11 there will be a <strong><em>ButterflyMoms Healing Share</em></strong> on Sunday, September 11 from 4-6 pm at the offices above Brick House Realty. For more information please send me an email maria @ butterflymoms.com. This is a way to shift the energy of our planet from the horrors of 9-11 into healing and love. Bring a donation to the food pantry. Event is Free. Kids are welcome. (seriously how cool is this?!) Especially if you are a healer contact me! The more the merrier! <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  “A VERY special THANK YOU to the building owners, Paul Guidi and Tom Schermerhorn, for donating the space for this event.”</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/yummy-food1.jpg"><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-1748 alignright" title="yummy food" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/yummy-food1.jpg?w=150" alt="" width="150" height="112" /></a>√  Do you like to eat yummy food? Well, I will be speaking at the <strong>DreamFactory Luncheon</strong> on Thursday, September 22 from 12:00-2:00pm. The topic is<strong><em> IGNITE YOUR BIGGEST DREAM!</em></strong> It will be held in Framingham at the delicious Bella Costa restaurant (147 Cochituate Rd). Lunch for 1st time attendees to the DreamFactory Community is only $25 (the lunch is VERY yummy!) If you have a business to promote and would like support around that this is a wonderful community to belong to…Space is limited so please sign up early to reserve your spot. It would be soooooooo awesome to see you there. Big hug coming your way when I see you so as Nike says, JUST DO IT! To sign up right now go to… <a href="http://www.cantorconsulting.com/Programs/tabid/298/CategoryID/68/Default.aspx">http://www.cantorconsulting.com/Programs/tabid/298/CategoryID/68/Default.aspx</a></p>
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<h2><strong>THE BOOK!!!!</strong></h2>
<p>The following is a list of places where ButterflyMoms live who bought our wonderful book MOM ENTREPRENEUR EXTRAORDINAIRE… Buy one so you can put your city/town/country on the list like so many other beautiful ButterflyMoms have!</p>
<p><strong>UNITED STATES</strong></p>
<p><strong>California</strong></p>
<p>Anaheim 1</p>
<p>Fullerton 1</p>
<p>Sacramento 1</p>
<p>San Bruno 1</p>
<p><strong>Connecticut</strong></p>
<p>Greenwich 1</p>
<p>Yalesville 1</p>
<p><strong>Florida </strong></p>
<p>Fort Lauderdale 1</p>
<p><strong>Kentucky</strong></p>
<p>Louisville 1</p>
<p><strong>Maryland</strong></p>
<p>Chestertown 1</p>
<p><strong>Massachusetts</strong></p>
<p>Ashland 2</p>
<p>Bolton 1</p>
<p>Holliston 13</p>
<p>Hudson 4</p>
<p>Medway 3</p>
<p>North Easton 1</p>
<p>Sherborn 1</p>
<p>South Grafton 1</p>
<p>Watertown 1</p>
<p>Worcester 3</p>
<p>Wrentham</p>
<p><strong>Missouri</strong></p>
<p>Lee’s Summit 1<strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>New York</strong></p>
<p>Scarsdale 1</p>
<p>Stony Brook 1</p>
<p><strong>Ohio</strong></p>
<p>Dublin 1</p>
<p><strong>Rhode Island</strong></p>
<p>Newport 1</p>
<p><strong>Vermont</strong></p>
<p>Waitsville (Mad River Valley) 2</p>
<p><strong>AUSTRIA</strong></p>
<p>Wien, Austria 2</p>
<p><strong>IRELAND</strong></p>
<p>Dublin, Ireland 1</p>
<p><strong>ITALY</strong></p>
<p>Rome, Italy 3</p>
<p><strong>JAPAN</strong></p>
<p>Tokyo  1</p>
<p><strong>PORTUGAL</strong></p>
<p>Santa Maria (Azores/Açores)  1</p>
<p><strong>SCOTLAND      </strong></p>
<p>Greenock</p>
<p><strong>SPAIN</strong></p>
<p>Madrid 1</p>
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<p>*To buy your copy Click here now…<a href="http://bit.ly/gRxe4U">http://bit.ly/gRxe4U</a></p>
<h2><strong>REMEMBER…</strong></h2>
<p>*Mark your calendar to read ButterflyMoms EVERY Friday!</p>
<p>*Share the ButterflyMoms blog with your beloved friends! Spread the love!  <a href="http://www.butterflymoms.com/">www.butterflymoms.com</a></p>
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		<title>What Do IRENE and SHREK Have To Teach Me?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wherever you go this week remember that YOU are a part of the AMAZING ButterflyMoms community! Know that you are not alone, that you are connected just because you are alive! LIVING is NOT EFFORTING. If you are efforting you are GOING THE WRONG WAY. Come every Friday to connect and feed your soul… It’s [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/ispi113193.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1707" title="ispi113193" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/ispi113193.jpg" alt="" width="151" height="226" /></a>Wherever you go this week remember that YOU are a part of the AMAZING ButterflyMoms community! Know that you are not alone, that you are connected just because you are alive! LIVING is NOT EFFORTING. If you are efforting you are GOING THE WRONG WAY. Come every Friday to connect and feed your soul… It’s the part of you that is absolutely PERFECTLY YOU!  YAAAAY!!!</p>
<p><strong>This week’s ButterflyMoms updates…</strong></p>
<p>*Just finished our 14th week in a row of <strong><em>ButterflyMoms Workshops</em></strong>!!!!! Don’t miss out on all the fun…Come next Thurs, September 8st at 8pm!  783 Washington St, Holliston. Plenty of FREE &amp; EASY PARKING in back. Only $25 or just $20 if pay through Paypal <a href="http://bit.ly/mS7c70">http://bit.ly/mS7c70</a></p>
<p>*We sold no <em>ENTREPRENEUR MOM EXTRAORDINAIRE</em> books this week. See the cool list of all the countries and states where people have bought books at the end of this blog. To feed the soul of a friend buy them a copy by CLICKING HERE NOW… <a href="http://bit.ly/gRxe4U">http://bit.ly/gRxe4U</a></p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/film.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1708" title="film" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/film.jpg?w=150" alt="" width="150" height="99" /></a>*Filmed my interview with DreamFactory guru Nancy Cantor at the Ashland Cable Studios. What a wonderful bunch of people there who LOVE what they do! It will air in Ashland and Framingham to promote my talk on September 15 at the DreamFactory luncheon. (I hope you come to it because it will be AWESOME!) In terms of seeing the interview, for those who don’t live in those towns (like me <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />   I will post it as soon as I have the link so you can have your own private viewing! TAH-DAH!!! (popcorn not included).</p>
<p>*Started doing more Reiki healings this week. I even have a client in Portugal! (yes, it’s true that I get around! <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  Some of you sent me emails asking for appointments but with all this crazy weather stuff I cannot find any of them. If you would like to get Reiki treatments let me know. I already have three scheduled for next week! To book a healing send an email with times you are available to maria @ butterflymoms.com!</p>
<p><strong>SAVE  THESE  DATES…FOR YOUR HEART !</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/is098w2hu.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1709" title="is098w2hu" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/is098w2hu.jpg" alt="" width="112" height="168" /></a>√  SERIOUSLY WHIP OUT your calendar and write down Friday, Saturday and Sunday, October 21-23 you have a date with yourself in Vermont at the beautiful Lareau Farm Inn for the first ever <em><strong>ButterflyMoms Fall Retreat</strong></em><strong>!</strong> Price is only $299 if you pay before October 2, after that it goes up to $365 which includes all the workshops, materials, most meals and lodging. There are a very limited number of spots so don’t be on the outside wishing you had booked it! We have gotten a number of requests for spots so reserve your spot now!! YOU WILL ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT!!!! TALK ABOUT REJUVINATING YOUR SOUL!!! WOW! To book it send an email to maria @ butterflymoms.com! You will only regret NOT going!!!!!</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/911-photo.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1710" title="911 photo" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/911-photo.jpg?w=125" alt="" width="125" height="150" /></a>√  On the 10<sup>th</sup> anniversary of 9-11 there will be a <strong><em>ButterflyMoms Healing Share</em></strong> on Sunday, September 11 from 4-6 pm at the offices above Brick House Realty. For more information please send me an email maria @ butterflymoms.com. This is a way to shift the energy of our planet from the horrors of 9-11 into healing and love. Bring a donation to the food pantry. Event is Free. Kids are welcome. (seriously how cool is this?!) <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  Especially if you are a healer contact me! The more the merrier! J &#8220;A VERY special THANK YOU to the building owners, Paul Guidi and Tom Schermerhorn, for donating the space for this event.&#8221;</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/yummy-food.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1711" title="yummy food" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/yummy-food.jpg?w=150" alt="" width="150" height="112" /></a>√  Do you like to eat yummy food? Well, I will be speaking at the <strong>DreamFactory Luncheon</strong> on Thursday, September 22 from 12:00-2:00pm. The topic is<strong><em> IGNITE YOUR BIGGEST DREAM!</em></strong> It will be held in Framingham at the delicious Bella Costa restaurant (147 Cochituate Rd). Lunch for 1st time attendees to the DreamFactory Community is only $25 (the lunch is VERY yummy!) If you have a business to promote and would like support around that this is a wonderful community to belong to…Space is limited so please sign up early to reserve your spot. It would be soooooooo awesome to see you there. Big hug coming your way when I see you so as Nike says, JUST DO IT! To sign up right now go to… <a href="http://www.cantorconsulting.com/Programs/tabid/298/CategoryID/68/Default.aspx">http://www.cantorconsulting.com/Programs/tabid/298/CategoryID/68/Default.aspx</a></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/bfm.png"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1712" title="BFM" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/bfm.png?w=150" alt="" width="150" height="114" /></a>Now onto the ButterflyMoms blog…</strong></p>
<p>GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD MORNING BEAUTIFUL BUTTERFLYMOMS!</p>
<p>Our ButterflyMoms group yesterday was simply magnificent! There are few places on this planet where you can feel safe enough to ask those questions and share those parts of you where you feel stuck. The shifts that are happening are incredible and I’m honored to be a part of it. SHIFTS….hmmmm, have you noticed any lately? In the weather perhaps? In your life? In the world? In your kids? In your friends? Are you noticing the little and big SHIFTS that are going on?</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/100-years-ago.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1713" title="100 years ago" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/100-years-ago.jpg" alt="" width="221" height="159" /></a></strong><strong>For THOUSANDS of years</strong> human beings basically learned by REPEATING what their parents did and for thousands of years this worked. Those who strayed from the status quo had no protection from their tribe and did not usually fair so well.</p>
<p><strong>About 200 years ago</strong> things started to SHIFT but were still grounded in the “old ways” of doing things. You did start seeing some rips on the fabric though.</p>
<p>As you start moving closer to <strong>100 years ago</strong> the speed of SHIFT started to increase at a more rapid pace.</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/big-computer.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1714" title="big computer" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/big-computer.jpg?w=150" alt="" width="150" height="90" /></a>I was born in 1967 (I love that year!!!) and, in general, for everyday people there were no computers we used at home, no cell phones, no electronic games, nada. In 4<sup>th</sup> grade a student’s “reward” for doing something extraordinary was to get a 15 minute pass to go to the library to play with a large domed calculator (there was a blue one and a yellow one)… and we all thought that it was sooooooo awesome! By 6<sup>th</sup> grade we were exposed to a computer that took up a whole room and you had to program it to play games or do those long HAPPY BIRTHDAY BANNERS (which everyone thought was sooooooooo cool, at the time!)</p>
<div id="attachment_1715" class='wp-caption alignright' style='width:119px;'><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/apple.jpg"><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-1715" title="Apple" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/apple.jpg?w=150" alt="" width="119" height="98" /></a><p class='wp-caption-text'>My first computer looked like this... <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p></div>
<p>By the time I got to my freshman year at Boston College in 1985 it was mandatory that everyone have their own computer. Today my 2<sup>nd</sup>grader pocket she carries technology in her DS that completely dwarfs the technology of my freshman year computer! And phones in general, we don’t even need to go there! No matter how young/old we are we have seen large differences even in our own lives in terms of technology.</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/storm2.jpg"><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-1716 alignleft" title="storm2" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/storm2.jpg?w=150" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>Another area of SHIFT has been around the weather. For those of us on the east coast, ENTER IRENE. That is my mother’s mother’s name so I have a special love for it! This storm was spectacularly different from any storm I have ever heard about. It hit the WHOLE east coast and in a way that way quite odd. Even Vermont got affected. You hear about natural disasters in Florida, Louisiana, California….but VERMONT? Really? Come on now? Plus we lost power for 24 hours our neighbors (two houses away) did not have electricity for days, some people in our small town of 14,000 still don’t have power and will not until at least a few more days. (How they still manage to be on Facebook is kind of funny…where there is a will…) Some had trees hit their houses, some had flooded basements, some nothing happened at all. It was all a big, interesting NOTICING of how different this storm was and how it affected how we had to SHIFT our every day habits.</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/shrek.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1717" title="shrek" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/shrek.jpg?w=150" alt="" width="150" height="112" /></a>Another SHIFT is in the ROLES WE CHOOSE to live. Growing up we were fed a healthy diet of “your prince charming will come and save you”, now my kids (3 girls and a boy) are being brought on a diet of “Shrek 1, 2, 3 and 4” where Prince Charming is a bit of an arse and the guy who everyone avoided, was the real “prince”.</p>
<p>SHIFTS are emerging everywhere. Within our lives we have stages so we have ALWAYS seen SHIFTS but these are different. We as a species are shifting. The best-selling author and teacher Carolyn Myss says that we are in the process of evolving into a new species, from human beings into our next level of evolution. WOW! DEEP BREATH.</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/butterflies-on-white-gown1.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1719" title="butterflies on white gown" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/09/butterflies-on-white-gown1.jpg" alt="" width="198" height="254" /></a>As things SHIFT some will try to hang on to what they know. Things (like diapers) and people (like some friends) are in our lives for a certain period of time and when that period is over things SHIFT. As “they” say SHIFT HAPPENS. You get to decide whether you are going to RESIST or FLOW with that SHIFT…DANCE OR FIGHT with that SHIFT….either is fine but the key is to be PRESENT enough to know that the decision is yours to make. MAKE IT WITH TOTAL PASSION!</p>
<p>Great big hugs,<br />
Mariaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa</p>
<p>PS   HEY! HEY! I CO-AUTHORED A BOOK! YESSIR I DID! The following is a list of places where ButterflyMoms live who bought our wonderful book MOM ENTREPRENEUR EXTRAORDINAIRE… Buy one so you can put your city/town/country on the list like so many other beautiful ButterflyMoms have!</p>
<p><strong>UNITED STATES</strong></p>
<p><strong>California</strong></p>
<p>Anaheim 1</p>
<p>Fullerton 1</p>
<p>Sacramento 1</p>
<p>San Bruno 1</p>
<p><strong>Connecticut</strong></p>
<p>Greenwich 1</p>
<p>Yalesville 1</p>
<p><strong>Florida </strong></p>
<p>Fort Lauderdale 1</p>
<p><strong>Kentucky</strong></p>
<p>Louisville 1</p>
<p><strong>Maryland</strong></p>
<p>Chestertown 1</p>
<p><strong>Massachusetts</strong></p>
<p>Ashland 2</p>
<p>Bolton 1</p>
<p>Holliston 13</p>
<p>Hudson 4</p>
<p>Medway 3</p>
<p>North Easton 1</p>
<p>Sherborn 1</p>
<p>South Grafton 1</p>
<p>Watertown 1</p>
<p>Worcester 3</p>
<p><strong>Wrentham </strong><em>(NEW THIS WEEK! THANK YOU JANICE WILSON FOR ADDING YET ANOTHER TOWN TO OUR EVER GROWING LIST! HOW COOL! )</em></p>
<p><strong>Missouri</strong></p>
<p>Lee’s Summit 1<strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>New York</strong></p>
<p>Scarsdale 1</p>
<p>Stony Brook 1</p>
<p><strong>Ohio</strong></p>
<p>Dublin 1</p>
<p><strong>Rhode Island</strong></p>
<p>Newport 1</p>
<p><strong>Vermont</strong></p>
<p>Waitsville (Mad River Valley) 2</p>
<p><strong>AUSTRIA</strong></p>
<p>Wien, Austria 2</p>
<p><strong>IRELAND</strong></p>
<p>Dublin, Ireland 1</p>
<p><strong>ITALY</strong></p>
<p>Rome, Italy 3</p>
<p><strong>JAPAN</strong></p>
<p>Tokyo  1</p>
<p><strong>PORTUGAL</strong></p>
<p>Santa Maria (Azores/Açores)  1</p>
<p><strong>SCOTLAND      </strong></p>
<p>Greenock</p>
<p><strong>SPAIN</strong></p>
<p>Madrid 1</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wherever you go this week remember that YOU are a part of the AMAZING ButterflyMoms community! Know that you are not alone, that you don’t have to effort in life. LIVING is NOT EFFORTING. If you are efforting you are GOING THE WRONG WAY. Come every Friday to connect and feed your soul…It’s the part [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wherever you go this week remember that YOU are a part of the AMAZING ButterflyMoms community! Know that you are not alone, that you don’t have to effort in life. LIVING is NOT EFFORTING. If you are efforting you are GOING THE WRONG WAY. Come every Friday to connect and feed your soul…It’s the part of you that is absolutely PERFECTLY YOU! <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> ! YAAAAY!!!</p>
<p><strong>This week’s ButterflyMoms updates…</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/highres_10870444.jpeg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1685" title="highres_10870444" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/highres_10870444.jpeg?w=150" alt="" width="150" height="99" /></a>*Just finished our 13th week in a row of <em><strong>ButterflyMoms Workshops</strong></em>!!!!! My beautiful baby daughter Sophia lived for 13 months and because it was the 13<sup>th</sup> one everyone who came got a certificate for a free Reiki session! We also did a wonderful meditation that everyone love, love, loved. Don’t miss out on all the fun…Come next Thurs, September 1st at 8pm!  783 Washington St, Holliston. Plenty of FREE &amp; EASY PARKING in back. Only $25 or just $20 if pay through Paypal <a href="http://bit.ly/mS7c70">http://bit.ly/mS7c70</a></p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/mom-entrepreneur-extraordinaire_.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1686" title="Mom Entrepreneur Extraordinaire_" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/mom-entrepreneur-extraordinaire_.jpg?w=150" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>*We sold yet another <em>ENTREPRENEUR MOM EXTRAORDINAIRE</em> book this week to the wonderful attorney <strong>Janice Wilson</strong> who is putting the city of WRENTHAM, MA on the ButterflyMoms map. YAY JANICE FOR SUPPORTING MY DREAMS! THANK YOU!… See the cool list of all the countries and states where people have bought books…*To feed the soul of a friend buy them a copy by CLICKING HERE NOW… http://bit.ly/gRxe4U</p>
<p>*Just finished my <strong><em>Reiki III Master Certification</em></strong> last week in Rhode Island. Have already done some long distance healing to people who don’t necessarily believe or even know what it is but the results were wonderful, because Reiki is wonderful. One was in Lisbon, Portugal, the other two were in Hudson, MA. I feel very happy to have accomplished this! Next comes teacher training <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> !</p>
<p><strong>SAVE  THESE  DATES…FOR YOUR HEART <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> !</strong></p>
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<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/photo_collage.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1687" title="photo_collage" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/photo_collage.jpg?w=300" alt="" width="300" height="239" /></a>√  WHIP OUT your calendar and write down Friday, Saturday and Sunday, October 21-23 you have a date with yourself in Vermont at the beautiful Lareau Farm Inn for the first “EVAH” <strong><em>ButterflyMoms Fall Retreat</em>!</strong> Price is only $299 if you pay before October 2, after that it goes up to $365 which includes all the workshops, materials, most meals and lodging. There are a very limited number of spots so don’t be on the outside wishing you had booked it! Just book it now and be done with it! YOU WILL ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT!!!! TALK ABOUT REJUVINATING YOUR SOUL!!! WOW! For a flyer send me an email maria at butterflymoms.com <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> !</p>
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<p>√  On the 10<sup>th</sup> anniversary of 9-11 there will be a <em><strong>ButterflyMoms Healing Share</strong></em> on Sunday, September 11 from 4-6 pm at the offices above Brick House Realty. For more information please send me an email maria @ butterflymoms.com. This is a way to shift the energy of our planet from the horrors of 9-11 into healing and love. Bring a donation to the food pantry. Event is Free. Kids are welcome.</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/bfm.png"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1688" title="BFM" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/bfm.png" alt="" width="250" height="191" /></a></p>
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<p>√  I will be speaking at the <strong>DreamFactory Luncheon</strong> on Thursday, September 22 from 11:30-2:00pm. The topic is<em><strong> IGNITE YOUR BIGGEST DREAM!</strong></em> It will be held in Framingham at the Bella Costa restaurant (147 Cochituate Rd). Lunch for 1st time attendees to the DreamFactory Community is only $25 (the lunch is VERY yummy!) If you have a business to promote and would like support around that this is a wonderful community to belong to…To sign up: <a href="http://www.cantorconsulting.com/Programs/tabid/298/CategoryID/68/Default.aspx">http://www.cantorconsulting.com/Programs/tabid/298/CategoryID/68/Default.aspx</a></p>
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<p><strong>Now onto the ButterflyMoms blog…</strong></p>
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<p>GOOOOOOOOOOOOOD MORNING BEAUTIFUL BUTTERFLYMOMS!</p>
<p>WOW! When you are on your path, you start noticing and seeing how life shifts!</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/im000477.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1689" title="IM000477.JPG" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/im000477.jpg?w=150" alt="" width="150" height="112" /></a>When you were very little, you played in the world. As you began to grow, the good opinions of others also grew.  You noticed that you would be rewarded for certain behaviors and punished for others. You began to follow a line of behavior that comes from the OUTSIDE of YOU, instead of INSIDE. This has worked for millions of years of human existence because it truly helped us simply survive….but now…Now we live in a different world where the OUTSIDE voices have run amok!</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/gps.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1698" title="GPS" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/gps.jpg" alt="" width="223" height="193" /></a>Yes, we start off listening to our inner voice then somewhere it switches to such a degree that we don’t even know if we still have one anymore. If you are alive, you have an inner voice, no matter how silent you think it has been. That precious voice is your INTUITION, the very first GPS in the universe. ITS PURPOSE is to guide you towards YOUR PURPOSE. So what happens when you ignore it? You know what happens. You start wandering aimlessly through the world trying this and doing that but not really ever “fitting” anywhere.</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/screaming-into-phone.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1690" title="screaming into phone" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/screaming-into-phone.jpg" alt="" width="274" height="267" /></a>Imagine that you are at a party in the middle of nowhere with no ride. Assume this is a vvvvvvvery loud party with people talking, laughing, yelling, and loud music. Your phone rings. It is someone who wants to give you important directions. You can make out a few words but most of it is incomprehensible. Let’s say that the caller is giving you directions on how to get to your happiness, your life’s treasure, your purpose. What do you do then? Do you stay at this party and keep trying to piece what is being said? Do you turn off the music? Do you tell people to be quiet? Do you move to a place where you think you can hear better? When none of this works what do you do? Do you start to get angry and start blaming…the phone, the people, the party, the noise, your situation, the caller, your hearing?</p>
<p>TAKE A DEEP BREATH! If you are a fan of mysteries like James Bond (or Austin Powers) <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  where you were wondering how he would get out of his predicament, let’s apply those powers of figuring it out here.</p>
<p>No matter what you believe, what label you give it, we all come from SOURCE ENERGY. SOURCE ENERGY is constant. It never takes a day off, never has a blip in the matrix. The more you can become aware of that SOURCE ENERGY the more you can HEAR/SEE/FEEL/KNOW what your next step is. BTW, SOURCE ENERGY is the one calling you at that loud party.</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/big-shoes.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1694 alignleft" title="big-shoes" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/big-shoes.jpg?w=300" alt="" width="300" height="214" /></a>Now you might be wondering, “WHY WHY WHY would SOURCE ENERGY be calling me when I’m at a vvvvvvvvvvery loud party!? How inconsiderate!” The key here is that all that party noise is what you create in your life. That represents all the STUFF you keep adding to be able to live the life others have told you (directly and indirectly), you are supposed to live…. “good grades”, “good schools” “good job”, “good husband/wife”,  “nice house”, “2.5 kids”…and a dog. WE are all GUILTY of FILLING OUR LIVES with all the things(both activities and items) that are supposed to make us happy. We do it for a while, might even do it for a long while but it’s like wearing shoes that are a tad bit too big/small. It might look fine on the outside but on the inside it does not FEEL GOOD. Sure you can cut off your feelings and “suck it up” (as we say/insinuate to our kids and ourselves) and walk in those shoes anyways for a while. Some even do it their entire lives because after a while they are just numb all over. They kill their feelings because they want to hear the message. SIDENOTE: This is typically when DIS-EASE (diseases) start entering the body.</p>
<p>So HOW do you start listening to/ connecting with SOURCE ENERGY? Think of your day today. It is most likely filled with STUFF you “have” TO DO. REMINDER TO TAKE A DEEP BREATH HERE! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! <img src='http://www.butterflymoms.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> ! FEELS GOOD!</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/ispi113193.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1691 alignright" title="ispi113193" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/ispi113193.jpg" alt="" width="112" height="168" /></a>If you choose to CARVE OUT time in your day for a moment, a minute, a string of moments to still your mind you will get to this place where you connect to SOURCE ENERGY. The word MEDITATION “scares”, or maybe it more “annoys” people because to the mind it is has the perception of being “boring”. I was (and on certain days still am) one of those people. I never grew up with it. Did not know what it was or HOW to do it. I now see how wonderful of a gift it can be. There are a million different ways to meditate. It is worth taking the time to explore which one works best for you. It can be as simple as getting on YOUTUBE and doing a guided mediation on there with someone who looks worth listening to, for you. Meditation is so important that we do meditations at the ButterflyMoms Workshops and will also be doing it at the Retreat in October. (I soooooo hope you join us.)</p>
<p><a href="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/szj252139.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1692 alignleft" title="szj252139" src="http://butterflymoms.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/szj252139.jpg" alt="" width="119" height="168" /></a>Most of the things on your TO DO LIST will drain you, putting:</p>
<p><strong><em> √ Play with Meditation today</em></strong></p>
<p>will feed your soul.</p>
<p>Great big hugs,<br />
Mariaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa</p>
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<p>Greenwich 1</p>
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<p>Madrid 1</p>
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